RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”
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What are the 3 qualities you desire in a life partner, before saying I do?.
Three qualities you should look out for in a life partner to those who are single and are still in search of love and as per my experience in relationships/marriage.
One is Emotional Maturity, this just simply means that a person who is able to handle conflicts , without those shouting matches that have now become rampant, no silent treatment etc, I mean someone who is ready to take responsibility of their own actions regardless because this life is already a mess somehow
Two , is Shared Values, I mean you seek out someone who has same values as you be it faith, career wise, religion , cause this things tend to have effect in the long run , even though love is sweet at first ,you still got to put this into consideration for your life partner , when you both align well , you both would be able to move in the same direction well.
Three for me is Genuine Friendship, This I learnt the hard way , friendship is not pity and pity us not friendship , if you know you know!
Yes before the whole Romance blah blah blah, you actually need someone who is happy ,I mean always happy to have you around, someone you can talk to , tell anything no matter how bad it is, without them judging you
When you have a partner that's your best friend it makes the life time journey more enjoyable, imagine you and your life partner who Is also your friend doing stuff you both enjoy together without grumbling .
This is my responses.
@justfavour @nkemakonam89 @hopestylist @samostically @merit.ahama @bipolar95 @beckyroyal @aikay @suqueen @glorydee
Where are you people?
, your qualities are too notch. Thanks for tagging me here
Alright . Thanks for reading
You're welcome.🤲
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Lol.
Hehe
You are welcome
Yeah yeah
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Ooseee
Eh
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🌝🌝
Why you dey smile?
Make I no smile again?😂
No vex...
Smile your smile in peace 😎
Good morning ooooo.
Good evening oooo
For real, having a partner that is more of a best friend than a partner is something that will help a lot in a relationship.
Exactly, because it would be like the best . Its going to be an enjoyable journey
Yeah.
🙌
Nothing beats getting married to someone you know in and out. Your friend.
Nothing beats a jet two holiday!!!!😂
And right now you can save £50 per person.😂
Nothing beats getting married to someone you know in and out. Your friend.
I dey come first.
Oya na.
I dey here
Oil dey your head.
Normal 😂
😂🤲
See as I replied all your 100 messages. Omo 😭
Omo. This your comment long oo.
Experience is the best teacher 😂
Normally.😂
Yes o
No o.
Yesssss ooo
Hmmm. Emotional maturity. It is important to get married to someone who is “intelligent” emotionally.
Okay I like the way you put the intelligent first. So yeah.....
Of course.
Yeah it's okay
Nice.
Have I not seen this message before?
There are still some important qualities to look out for, but these ones are also very important.
There are alot to look out for yes....
Nice one.
Yeah it is
Good morning.
How are you doing
Go talk your own make I go read. 🏃♀️➡️
I dey come.😂
I dey wait patiently. 😂
Okay, mama.
Yes, papa. 🥹
We’ll soon reach.
Eii! Thank God. 🧎♀️🥹
I can't wait oo, guy.
I know, babes. 😭
I don reach house.😂😂
Yay! 🥰
🌹🤭
Why you dey wait fess?
Why I nor go wait? 😂
Something is fishy.😂
Don’t worry. I’ll add meat to it too. 🤭
And ponmo.🥲
Yes. Yes. 🥹
Sweetious.
Is alright. 😂
🫠
Chai. I won’t eating well like when I was with my sister o.
One reason I wanted you to stay back too. It is well sha. 🫠
Guy. Do you get?
But Omo. It is for the best.
Yes, love.
Yeppie.
Yessie.
😂😂
Make you no go use wetin I talk attack me.😂
Nah! Far from that. 😂
Ah! Phew.😂🌝
Phewist. 😂
😂😂
Have you dropped yours?
Not today. Or maybe later.
Remember to tag me to it.
Before nko? 😌
Thank God you know.
Yes, darling. 🥰
❤️🤭🌹
Muah. 😘
Ei!
🫣
What are you doing? 😂
Nothing. 🙂↔️
Why… you know what? Forget about it.😂
Okay. 😂🏃♀️➡️
😂😂
Abi na tag me in it.
I gerrit. 😂
E hard.😂
For real. 😂
It is well.😂
Yes o, my guy. 😂
Guy, the blood don dry.
Has mum cleaned it now?
Nope.🥲
Okay, love.
Okay o.
Yes o. 😂
SHARP!!!!
This comment is truly from experience...
Emotional Maturity is very necessary and important... Many persons have made these mistakes and are still making it...
You poured out your mind here oo 😂
It is o my brother.
I have to say how it is to me because you don't know who might be reading
YES
It is important, when I saw the notification and the topic, at first it was looking hard, but then it has a lot to tell us..
If people were opportunity to see their current situation in marriage, Maybe they might have changed their plans..
Yeah they would have .
Omo sha its well
Sure, it's well..
Yea
Aligning in the same dream of goal is another important quality...
Honestly, there are many and Many Qualities..
Yeah there are alot of qualities and we should know that people are not perfect too
Exactly 💯
As Human, we can't be 100% perfect
Yeah we can't at all
Interesting the qualities you desire are great: emotional maturity, shared values as well as friendship. Friendship is so important because is adds spice to the whole thing.
Do you think emotional maturity comes with age?? or is it a thing of the mind @treasuree
Not age. The mind I will say
True. Maturity is a thing of the mind.
Hmmm. This is so good.
Yeah thanks