No Regrets,Just Lessons.

So this year is almost packing its load and going, and honestly, I have been thinking about the whole eleven months like one long movie with too many plot twists, some scenes were sweet, some were stressful, and some… let’s just say I wish I could skip them like an annoying advert on YouTube.

But then when I really sit down and think about it, I won’t say I regret anything I did this year or the people I met, Nah... I won’t even lie, everything came with its own lesson, so some lessons were calm, some were rough, and some were as if life dragging my ear and saying, “Don’t try this nonsense again.” but you know still, they were lessons, and not regrets.

This year should have been better for me, if I am being honest, I started 2025 with ginger, plans, goals, vibes, everything, but somewhere along the line, life just said, “Hold my drink,” and switched things up on me, It was not all bad, sha, I had fun moments, good conversations, and laughter that made my cheeks hurt, I met people that added color to my year, even if some of them came with small wahala, but it is what it is.

Now let me talk about the part I didn’t really enjoy chai, this year really humbled me financially, I was so broke, not just broke, but that “let me check my account again, maybe it will change” kind of broke, and you see the funny thing is that I still managed to survive, still managed to look fresh sometimes, even when my pocket was crying always.

Would I go back and erase that experience if I could? Maybe, but then again, it taught me a lot, It taught me how to prioritize, how to plan better, how to be patient, and how to depend on God more than my own understanding, It also made me appreciate even the small wins, and you see honestly, I think I needed that lesson so much, even though I don’t want to repeat it again next year.

As for the people… hmm, let's say yes ,there are some people that I met this year that I would not necessarily want to unmeet, yeah... but I would have preferred to meet them in a different version of myself, maybe me that wasn’t stressed, that wasn’t overwhelmed, or me that was not expecting too much from anyone, but still even with that, I can not say they were mistakes in my life, see every single person showed me something about myself, they showed me my patience, my boundaries, my softness, my strength, and for that, I am really grateful.

So if there is anything I would want to unsee or unhear, maybe it is some conversations that were unnecessary, some truths that did stung,and some moments that left me thinking just too much, but again, without those moments, I would not have grown the way I did.

So yes , as the year wraps up, I am choosing my peace, no kind of regrets, just lessons, no bitterness, just clarity, no shame, just growth all the way.

2025 was not perfect, but it did shaped me, and you see honestly? I think that is enough.

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