Friendship Happens Naturally For Me.

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See when it comes to choosing friends, I seriously don’t think I have ever had any serious criteria, I am not the type that just sits down to write a list of qualities that I want in a friend or start analyzing people like I am interviewing them for a job, nah..... I just go with the flow, when I meet people, we talk, and if the vibe feels right, then that’
Is it , we keep in touch and see how it goes from there.

I think friendship is one of those things you cannot really predict in this life, see you might meet someone today and think they are just a random person, then many weeks later you both start talking more, and before you know it, you have built this strong connection that you never saw coming, that is why I mostly let fate take its course when it comes to friendship, I have realized that sometimes, the people who end up being the most important in your life are not the ones you planned to have around.

Of course, I still like my friends to be thoughtful and caring people , that one is very important to me, see I seriously can’t really deal with people who are too proud, insensitive, or constantly in competition, I love peace and good energy around me, so anyone that carries negative vibes or always wants to prove a point, I quietly move away, I like people who can listen, laugh, and share things genuinely without always expecting something in return.

But the funny thing about friendship is that you never truly know people until you spend time with them, someone can look and act perfectly fine at first, and then as time goes on, you start noticing certain things about them, that is where I let my instincts guide me, If I start feeling off around someone or start sensing that they are not being real with me, I slowly keep my distance, I have learned it is better to protect your peace than force a friendship that doesn’t feel right anymore.

I have had both good and bad experiences with friends, some people came into my life and made it better, while others taught me hard lessons about trust, but I don’t regret any of it, every person I have met has shaped me in one way or another, even when things didn’t work out, I learned something ,maybe about patience, forgiveness, or just how to read people better.

So yeah, I will say I don’t choose friends based on some kind of strict standards, I just allow things to happen naturally, you know that life already has a way of bringing the right people your way at the right time, and when it does, you will just know, the connection feels easy, the conversations flow well, and there is no stress at all , that is how I know I have made the right choice.

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