love yourself and try to control your life with positive things...

Life can be full of surprises and trying to compress it into a given mold is too much. Our capabilities are sometimes questioned but when we take time to know ourselves and how badly we want to achieve success then it turns to be a great motivator.

It is my conviction that determination is the important thing. When you want something to achieve, you did not ask questions as you keep on trying. But never ask why can be the mantra that would make you more reachable and proud of the things you have done.

These efforts will bring some memories that you will cherish as you know that you struggled to get what you desire. However, in attempting, you will limit the regrets and maximize self development.

We should have control of our life. Once we manage our lives, then we are balanced and orderly. When we put limits and restrictions upon ourselves success will be the result. In so doing we build something we could be proud of, something that makes us feel powerful and complete.

When a person has control over his life, he or she cannot be controlled. Individuals may have different effects on us as there may be those that provide good advice and encourage us, but there are those that are harsh or hard to read. One should avoid being overdependent on other people. Rather, concentrate on achievement of self-goals and dreams. This self motivating process will present you with beautiful scenes and life accomplishment. Invest in yourself and you will have the benefit.

Avoidance of depending on other people may be disappointing and depressing. Too much dependence on others may too render us rough and harsh. Waiting to be helped or guided always takes us away the focus on our goals and aspirations. This life is yours and you ought to take ownership.

No person is better placed to do something that you can do to yourself. It is important to comprehend your life find strong rules and take charge. Such self-empowerment will make you have moments that you can be proud of and achieve a level of fulfillment. Waiting to be taken somewhere by others- just to give them a chance, won t get you anywhere. You take charge and get yourself headed in the right direction. The way you build your life is up to you and the success of your life rests on the choices you make."