be your own support system
namsate everyone here are some important compiments about life as life is all about being with people who understand our worth and value us for who we are.
ps : is mine
People who love us in the right manner and ensure that they take the time out to listen to understand when we are feeling down or hurt are the blessing.
We also need to be around such people who can help us in moments of needs. Unluckily in our contemporary world, these people are a lucky few. Thus, it is highly important that people can be the best friends to themselves, they must think independently, and also learn to forget things.
It should not be viewed as a single thing which one should get stuck and allow to pull them back. We must stress going forward and having our own support system instead.
Being present in our life is very important and we should manage to be content with the person we are and the things that we possess. It is in our best interests that we should always encourage ourselves to rise and meet challenges. We cannot stay behind by just relying on others but by doing so we will fail.
In the current world people tend to treat fellow us according to their convenience and personal interests. Thus, we must be, not only our own support system, but be ready to fight our own battles. The moment we start concentrating on ourselves, we stop comparing ourselves with other people, and this is when we in fact realise the kind of strength we possess.
As I have seen, I believe that we should be able to stand on his/her own feet and also capable of tackling face-outs. By being too much dependent on others, we will have problems in the event of hardships. Hence, Self-sufficiency and self independence is the hallmark of the strong and makes them more resilient.
When we depend on other people we lose our self-handling power and strength. Rather, we have to confront our problems directly, in order to overcome them by ourselves. In this manner, we will be able to support others and generate our inner strength."