The Wedding Party.
More than the food, I think my attention will be focused more on how organized the event would play out.
I'm sure I am not the only one who has attended a wedding and wasn't given food because of poor organization. In a cases like that you'll see people rushing for food and some might end up going with 2 or more plates of rice while people like myself that are hungry but love to form something and can't join thr others to push because of food return home empty handed, no souvenirs and no food.
Oh my! I skipped the church wedding and dived over to the reception. Well since the reception carries more fun, I think it is quite understandable. I don't really have more challenges with the white other than the thing with most bride’s arriving late to church for their own wedding, maybe because their own that's why they arrive it.. Well i don't know.
I remembered a time when I was made to join the choir for a friend’s wedding that was fixed by 10am, the bride came in a few minutes past 12pm, at that time the lady leading the praise and worship had already sung her voice out, she was vexed and drained at the same time. I couldn't blame her at all, I was equally tired myself and I'm sure everyone present there felt the same way too.
In all honesty, a wedding for me now isn't the same way my younger self thought it was. As per my country’s tradition which regards bride price as the real marriage, It totally makes it a necessity. Then, being in a more civilized world, I would gladly pursue civil affairs to get a proper marriage certificate which should be fair enough, to getting the blessings from a priest or a pastor, with this I legally became a married woman.
Of course, I love parties and will eventually throw a party depending on my pocket. It's so unfortunate that most people end up in huge debts after getting married.
This very problem is not told to the public. It's however common since broken marriages have surfaced as a result of this reason.
I believe marriage or weddings are supposed to be done without stress, pleasing yourself on your big day and feeling happy, not dealing with a disorganized congregation or running into debts because of the wedding.
Just maybe if everyone could buy my ideal of a simple wedding, there would be more smiles and less stress on their remarkable day.
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Showing up at your own wedding is a total turn off for me. I don't want to attend a wedding and wait several hours for it to start because it was poorly organised.
Interesting entry. Well done.
Thank you
Interesting that that's all you usually have to say. Anyway, be reminded that engagement is important in the community, so consider checking other authors as well.
Oh right!
I did picked on your compliment to reply to, am sorry if it did appeared blank at your ends.
I'll do well to check on others posts too, thanks again for the information, sincerely appreciated.
Nigerians and attending parties because of party rice 5 and 6 🤣🤣🤣.
But joke aside party rice sweet die
Yes, but I've attended the one that did not sweet o...lol
Even if the food is not sweet or half cooked it still has dat party rice taste that makes you unable to throw it away. You'll just be like " dis rice no sweet o" but you're still eating it🤣🤣🤣.
Heheheh😅.. Well I've actually thrown a food away once o.. Took the meat and dropped the food.
That party rice was terribly unmanageable.
I hate delays at weddings, I also attended a wedding where the bride arrived very late to the point people were all grumbling in church even the pastor got tired and wanted to end the service. On the other hand, I was wishing for him to end the service so the couples could get married later when they're ready to keep to time. Timing matters so intending couples should learn that and stop wasting people's time.
Very true. I didn't even say the part where the groom was made to pay a fine because of the delay caused by his bride.
I don’t think there is a Nigeria wedding that’s done without stress
Even the low key wedding
But there are some actually
But anything that has to do with
Traditional
Church and
Reception
It will be time consuming and stressing
Very true, wedding it's work on it's own.
✌🏼exactly
African timing is indeed affecting so many wedding arrangements. But I just believed because its a special day for the couple, guests should always understand as MCs most times favors the couple in timing ⏱
It's not even a matter of reception, i was talking about the church wedding.
Oh I see @toryfestus . Everything about a wedding never corresponds with timing.
Enjoy your day.
I think i should agree with this.
Thanks for stopping by
❤️
So are you now condemning soke of us that go to any party whether invited or uninvited, hehe
Omo from childhood I no dey use my ear hear of party of any kind o, whether wedding or even burial, haha
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i didn't say anything oo
My love for food only made me justify myself just incase my admirers see this, they won't think the babe they're trying to woo is a foodie to that extent🤣🤣🤣
Hehe, issorite
But did u say d admirers?
So wat if I am one?
😅😅😅😅... We know you aren't.
Ah! Na so she don take serve me breakfast shapely, hehe
Hehe... I did no such thing oo😅
hehe, u are a fine gal
its like I am already liking u
whats you discord username?
Lol..oh really?😅
Justtory..
😁😂
It seems that there are guests who first of all want a lot of food at the wedding and secondly the happiness of the bride and groom. A very heartfelt post, which made me laugh a lot.
#dreemerforlife
Aww.... Am glad you found it interesting.
For those of us who likes food, you can't blame us, it's as we say.. What's a party without item 7😀😀
Thanks for reading through❤
Just kidding.
This wedding thing -as you rightly say- should not be stressful, but very enjoyable. How crazy is it that marriages are dissolved because of the debt left by the wedding.
And this thing about brides being late? ha, it's a classic!
It's indeed a classic😅😅😅
Thanks all the way for reading through❤
You sum it up here. I have seen couples take lone to finance their wedding only to be facing difficulties in paying the loan. There is no point trying to impress people so that the programme would be the topic in town while you suffer the pain of repayment in silent.
#dreemerforlife
Exactly. And i think on most cases, the ladies are at fault here, before you know it, it'll end up as suffering and smiling.
Thanks for reading through❤
You are welcome, bro
I'm a babe🙂