Cultivating the Habit of Giving

Giving is one of the most powerful and beautiful habits a person can develop. It goes beyond sharing money; it can be your time, skills, care, support, or even a listening ear. When you give, you are not just helping someone else. You are also growing as a person.

One of the most important things to understand about giving is that it should come from a pure heart. You should give, not because you want something in return, but because you see a need and you want to help. Giving is not an investment where you expect a fixed return. It is an act of kindness meant to uplift others and make life easier for those who may be struggling.

In many cultures and religions, giving is seen as a virtue. It teaches you to be grateful for what you have and to remember that there are others who may not be as fortunate. Our religious beliefs, for instance, remind us of the value of generosity, compassion, and empathy. These teachings are meant to help us build a better and more caring society.

There are many benefits to giving. It brings people closer, builds strong relationships, and promotes trust. A giver is often loved and respected because of their kind heart. It also helps communities grow. When people give back to their communities, whether through building schools, supporting education, or creating job opportunities; everyone benefits. For example, in the Lakowe area of Ibeju-Lekki, a company named MTN built a modern classroom for an overcrowded school. The joy on the faces of the students and parents was priceless. This kind of giving can change lives and make communities stronger and more united.

On a personal level, giving can lift your spirit. It reduces stress, fights sadness, and brings lasting happiness. It makes you feel useful, purposeful, and fulfilled. But it is important to strike a balance. You should not give so much that you begin to neglect yourself. Also, not everyone deserves your help. Some people only take and never give back. They may even begin to feel entitled to your support. As a giver, you must be wise and protect yourself from being used.

If giving becomes a common culture in our society, many people will be lifted out of poverty. Instead of waiting for help all the time, they will be inspired and empowered to stand on their own. True giving should help others become independent, not dependent. That is when your giving has true value; it builds. It strengthens and uplifts.

In the end, giving is not just about what leaves your hand; it’s about what grows in someone else’s life because of your kindness. Make giving a part of your life, not for rewards, not for praise, but because the world becomes a better place when we care for one another.