The time I made the best decision of my life.

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The best decision I've ever made was the decision I made during my trial time which is choosing who to marry. Read my story. Some years ago, when I was still single, I had four suitors, all asking for my hand in marriage at the same time hahahah as the hot girl that i was back then 🤣.

The first was my boyfriend then, but he wasn't stable; like, he was dating me and still dating another girl from a different town. And at the same time asking me to marry him. After introducing himself in the other girls family as her husband to be, mad man🤣. And more so my family don't really like him. The second suitor is a lecturer; he used to be my very good friend, like my best friend. We would make calls two to three times a day. And Whenever his in town, we do spend time together. He later asked me to marry him, i didn't pick him because i had no feelings for him at all.

Everyone in the town knew us as a couple then, but we weren't in any form of relationship—nothing at all between us. The third suitor is a doctor, hmm, the most handsome of them all, but also the most stingy of them all🤣. The problem I had with him then is that he is very stingy.

I mean, very, very stingy 🤣. If there was another word bigger than stingy, it would be him 🤣. I couldn't imagine myself with that kind of man as my husband 🏠. That means I might be marrying myself, because I might end up suffering if I marry that kind of person. I had to reject him with speed 🤣. And the fourth suitor is my husband.

All of these guys were asking for my hand in marriage at the same time. Hmm, it was really a trial time for me, and I want to make sure I don't make a mistake. Thank God i didn't. You know that saying that says if you missed it in marriage, you have missed it for life. And among all of them, my husband is the one that is not really financially stable.

Hmm, but the reason why I picked him is because back then he wasn't dating anyone. And him knowing I have other suitors, he made sure to prove himself worthy of having me as his wife, and I weighed all of them morally, emotionally, and in maturity, and I picked my husband, knowing well that all of them were more financially stable than him, but I still chose him. And again i was praying to God to show me who to choose among all of them. And i was always seeing my husband face on my dreams.

And that is the best decision I've ever made in my life. That was how I overcame my trial time. Through prayer 🙏 and looking beyond the physical things. Thank you for reading through.