Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships.

The act of not allowing anyone to take advantage of you is something we really need to train ourselves against because a lot of people see us, especially those who are not very wicked and stubborn, as very gullible. People will feel they can generate whatever they do to them because they don't talk or react too easily. This Is what kills some of the relationships out there today, and the relationship I'm talking about is not about a dating relationship, but about a friendly relationship that you have with people.

Sometimes you go, I will happen to be a very stubborn person, and I take no nonsense from anyone, but after some time, I realized that this kind of act is something I wouldn't want to grow up with, and my mom spoke to me and some other people, and I had to change the way I behave to people and to ensure that I am very relative. When you happen to be the hash type, people will feel you are a really kind person they can relate to because of the kind of person you are, but this kind of person is actually the best because when you get to know them, you know the stuffs they are made of.

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Ever since I decided to change my ways, it has not been so easy for people to relate to me, but the more they try to relate to me, the more they try to go beyond my boundary, which sometimes makes me annoyed. There is a difference between being relatable and doing what people like that. These are two different things. When I noticed this kind of thing would later affect me, I had to speak out and let people around me know that there are some things that I won't take and some things that I won't overlook.

And when I changed my own way and the way I relate to people and the way they relate to me, it was very hard to cope at first, but after all, I coped. In whatever you do, make sure you set boundaries for people so that when you react to anything, they will relate. Ever since I changed, there has been a change, and I maintain work balance.