Cherish Every Moment..

There is always one joy in getting to see those you love after a long time of staying apart from one another. Normally, they say 20 children cannot play for 20 years, and that is why we cannot be with our loved ones totally. We will all depart and just get to speak to one another once in a while, and this doesn't mean you guys don't like each other again, but it is just the normal thing. When you get to some point in your life, you all must surely depart not for anything bad but for the good side.

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I left my parents for some time, and I have been staying alone for a while now, struggling with life. Each of the other things is so different compared to when you have your parents do it for you, and you will worry less. When you are on your own, it's another level of commitment to yourself, and you can't just ignore yourself to suffer rather than to make sure you care for yourself, even when you still have your parents to struggle for you to some extent.

The impact of not having those you love around you or your parents sounds so different, and trust me, at some point when you imagine you don't have those you love around you anymore and the only thing you can think of is probably through a call or a text message, you will now understand that it is very different. I had the chance to meet my cousin today. After a long time, we've only departed, and it feels like we never departed at all.

I was looking at her in disguise, trying to form a hard guy and trying to let her know I don't miss her so that she won't be feeling herself, but deep down, I really missed her so much because it has really been a long time and what we only do is video calls and voice calls. One thing that is very sure is that no matter how much you love those you claim to love, one day you won't get to see them again.

This made me remember when my grandma died. Actually, ever since I grew up, she is the first person I will be so sure and certain of who died when I was my youthful age. When I got to hear about her death, I was so shocked, and it was still like she had traveled. Later, when I now understood what it really means to die, I was now asking my dad if I wouldn't be able to see her anymore. Live every moment you have with your loved ones, and remember to make memories because memories won't ever die.

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