Boundaries, Respect, and Staying True to Yourself.

I have always learned to mind my business in everything I do, and I didn't just conclude that, but I have had some things happen that have made me come to the suggestion that I really need to be myself so I won't get into trouble with anyone. One of the top values or priorities of a human is when you are yourself and you do not need anyone to do a validation for you and you do not need to show yourself to people to seek validation. I have been through some situations in which I just need to be myself and do everything possible not to get into problems with anyone because as a human, you will surely meet that.

When you do not learn to always mind your business in life, it's always in two ways: either you get yourself in trouble or someone will get you into trouble. Because life is a give and take, what you give will surely bring back its return to you one way or the other. I can actually agree that male and female are two different entities because the way we all operate is very different entirely.

As a man, when things happen, the way a man will see a problem will be different from the way a woman will see it, and that is because we see things in different ways. A woman can hear of something and then react to it immediately based on her emotions, and that is why they are women. But it is another case when you, as a man, behave like a woman that you are not. It is very wrong. Another thing is that as a man, when you are sharing something with someone or telling them about yourself, you expect them to be able to keep this safe and not share it with anyone.

I always say when I see this in the reverse way, we see a man acting childish. One of the things that can break a relationship is when you spread fake news, and one thing that can spread so fast is false news because when you don't get to the right matter, you will talk based on what you know or have heard, and when it's not the right information, you spread what is not true about people and about things.

Nevertheless, some people still act this way because I heard about an incident that happened yesterday, and it was a guy that was spreading false news about someone he intended to have something with, but he was unable to get access to the person because the person created a boundary. The way you want people to address or view you depends on your way of life and personality. Well, in some cases it is said that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, but sometimes the cover previews the kind of thing you hope to get from the book you are reading. But the bottom line is that in whatever way it is, just try to be yourself, and sharing false news doesn't just break a person's identity but ruins people's lives without knowing because this spreads faster than a real story.