RE: I REMEMBER THE TOUGH TIMES
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Very true.
However, sometimes they are just self centered, sometimes they are blinded by a bad situation, sometimes they are too focused on their own needs to see the needs of others.
And sometimes they are just wicked and heartless.
Looking way back (its been over 30 years now) at the girl I loved. She had her own issues in her past and sought validation through relationships. I was too immature at the time to see and ended up getting burned. It would be easy to see her as heartless but easier for me to look back and see her as someone with her own problems I didn't understand.
But you did the right thing. Walk away. Grow as a person yourself. Learn for the future :) .... although I'm sure it felt like a knife through the heart
Sometimes, it's natural to make excuses for people, especially when all you did was love them. and seeing their wickedness as it should be can be a hard pill to swallow