Financial Dependence a Very Sad Myth

In Nigeria Women where not allowed to do so much for themselves except now there's a revolution that's starting to play out and making women see more than they have already seen about themselves.

Well the Internet is quite upset with these set of women who have become eye openers to naive women and made them more aware of what life holds for them other than the crumbs they've been trained to believe they deserved all along.

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Nigerian women from time memorial have been groomed to believe that all they needed , all they ever want would be provided by there husbands and that all they needed to do was be submissive, clean the hours take care of the children, bear more children and tend to there husbands needs, anything else that they needed they would receive from there husbands.

No questions asked all that was expected of them is to submit to him and he would provide everything needed for them and if it wasn't enough they shouldn't complain, every money handed to the Nigerian woman must be handed accounted for she isn't allowed to want more than she's given or she'd be perceived as been greedy and wasteful.

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But the times are changing and life is beginning to shine a better light on the average Nigerian women who has been sold the believe that depending on her husband was the only way forward, because this was one strong means a man would have control over her.

Some Men go as far as tell a woman he was dating to quit her job once she is married , putting financial constraints on her shoulder, incapacitating the woman of a voice to make decisions for herself and do this for herself independently.

Some of these men go as far as making sure there wives must not earn more than they do it they eventually allowed her the liberty to work and earn her own money, and that she must forfeit all the money she has earned every end of the month to him in sign of respect for her Husband.

So it's a Call for help that women should start to learn that she has a voice of her own a head of her own and she can be dependent on herself, and be financially independent and literate so that she could become someone better in the future, not just for herself but for the women after her to come .

Women are now pacesetter help other young women seek independence and freedom from the tyranny they find themselves all in the name of been submissive to a man who only wants total control of her voice and reasoning slaving away her self from time and beyond.