Niceness Is Not an Apology
I can’t overlook the way some people bruise you and then return with some kind of manipulative softness, pretending as if kindness alone can erase the shape of the wound.
They do something wrong and they’re very much conscious of it and are also conscious you’re still hurting over it but instead of naming the problem, instead of standing still long enough to apologize, they arrive smiling.
Next thing you know, lighter voices, small favors, borrowed warmth are being shoved in your face, when you don’t buy it, they gawk at you, hoping their politeness will rewrite the moment.
But niceness without accountability is obviously just manipulation in a gentler coat. I can’t overlook the silence where an apology should live and will never. The careful avoidance of the truth, the refusal to sit with discomfort or the absurd belief that time and charm can do the work that honesty refuses to do.
If we don’t talk about what hurts, it doesn’t disappear. In my case, it waits and just settles in the space between us, present and asking to be acknowledged.
So no, I won’t be softened into forgetting. Nor will I be coaxed into peace that is built on denial. Because care is not being nice afterward, it is owning the harm and saying openly I was wrong and meaning it.
And that, if not done correctly, is something I can’t overlook.
My response to the freewriters dailyprompt
For some reason, a lot of people find it hard to say that one word: sorry. There’s nothing wrong with saying it. In fact, saying it doesn’t make you look weak, it’s a strength. Admitting a mistake and trying to make it right takes courage, and you gain respect.
Exactly! I honestly don’t know why anyone would think apologizing is a sign of weakness. They let pride take over their sense of reasoning and such behavior is appalling.
Your friends just killed Hive by censoring the truth
@steevc Your friend @jacobtothe is still downvoting me but just remember you got all these people involved and you was the one who said you wanted to speak on chain so you basically set me up
Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today 🙏🏾
Just for the record find the truth they call spam👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new
But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does
Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone
I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters
Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars
I will keep updating this post when I get time
https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-16-09-2025-20250916181314
https://hive.blog/hivedev/@makerhacks/please-peakd-allow-me-to-completely-block-spammers-would-you-ever-vote-for-this
https://hive.blog/hive-167547/@dlmmqb/re-kgakakillerg-t34wy6
https://hive.blog/hive-170475/@acidyo/re-kgakakillerg-t32sw1
https://hive.blog/hive-167922/@themarkymark/re-kgakakillerg-t30ziu
https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-29-09-2025-20250929172045
No downvotes for this racist person 🧐
https://hive.blog/hive-196387/@acidyo/re-kgakakillerg-t41yr6
https://hive.blog/dvs/@dhedge/re-kgakakillerg-t3clz3
https://hive.blog/hive-150329/@kgakakillerg/t3a8fu
https://hive.blog/musical/@steevc/re-kgakakillerg-t2kz1m
👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
Please understand how stupid it looks you acting like you care 😂😂😂😂😂
You can keep downvoting my posts hope it makes you feel better 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please bring out your other alt accounts 😂😂😂😂😂
Keep doing your masters work 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please understand you are being used
You are a puppet
You can't hide on a Blockchain 😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone can see what's going on but some are afraid to say anything 😂😂😂😂
🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑😂😂😂😂😂😂
All you are doing is showing that Hive is not decentralised 😂😂😂😂⭕👀💯😂🤣🤣🤣
Keep making that honey for your master
Just understand more people will see and more people will speak up 😂😂😂😂😂
i know my way around Hive very well I see everything and so do others
So you can keep playing your game 🎮
But just remember you are playing games with people's lives
I don't really give a fuck if you downvote me but you are messing with a lot of dangerous people
Downvote me as much as you like it changes nothing I've showed you what's going on and if you think it's ok crack on just remember karma is always around the corner
I believe in God 🙏🏾 do you ?
I don't know how people like you look at yourself in the mirror knowing what you are doing everyday
Can I ask you seriously what do you think downvoting people is going to archive?
What has it archived so far
I really hope you downvoters get the help you need and it's clear you all need to get outside more 🙏🏾
The evidence speaks for it's self
Please read and view
Hello everyone good morning good afternoon good evening where ever you are around the world 🌎 🌍 🌍 🌍 🌍
As many of you know I was downvoted on Hive by the biggest farmers on Hive 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
They think I care about rep on Hive when it means nothing in the real world 😂😂😂😂😂
It's mad how the ones doing the downvoting are farming Hive with armies of alt accounts 😂 😂
They selfvote there own shit post's and projects 😂😂😂
They like to talk a whole lot of shit 💩
But they can't Face the truth so in this post you can find the truth
This is part 3 Hive is done please do check out the previous parts
I make one big post soon I think I need to do a few more parts first
The thing is I've been called a spammer and all sorts of things but words mean nothing 😂😂😂😂
Especially when they are coming from scammers farmers downvoting racist people 😂😂😂😂
It's still so hard to believe that blocktrades is behind buildawhale usainvote and other accounts that are actively destroying Hive 😂 😂
Hive has the tech but not the brain's at the top
It's crazy that acidyo tells people about selfvoting whilst selfvoting his shit projects 💩 everyday 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Themarkymark is running the buildawhale comment farm for his master Blocktrades 😂 😂 😂
It's so funny how themarkymark account has a free pass the same as acidyo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's not hard to tell who is running Hive 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you so much for reading and viewing this post
Now I got a question for you all do you think I'm a scammer or spammer 😂😂😂😂😂
Please be honest it won't offend me 😎👍🏾
I would highly recommend you checking out the previous parts
Hive is done
Hive is Done part 2
👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾
Your friends just killed Hive by censoring the truth
@steevc Your friend @jacobtothe is still downvoting me but just remember you got all these people involved and you was the one who said you wanted to speak on chain so you basically set me up
Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today 🙏🏾
Just for the record find the truth they call spam👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new
But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does
Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone
I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters
Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars
I will keep updating this post when I get time
https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-16-09-2025-20250916181314
https://hive.blog/hivedev/@makerhacks/please-peakd-allow-me-to-completely-block-spammers-would-you-ever-vote-for-this
https://hive.blog/hive-167547/@dlmmqb/re-kgakakillerg-t34wy6
https://hive.blog/hive-170475/@acidyo/re-kgakakillerg-t32sw1
https://hive.blog/hive-167922/@themarkymark/re-kgakakillerg-t30ziu
https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-29-09-2025-20250929172045
No downvotes for this racist person 🧐
https://hive.blog/hive-196387/@acidyo/re-kgakakillerg-t41yr6
https://hive.blog/dvs/@dhedge/re-kgakakillerg-t3clz3
https://hive.blog/hive-150329/@kgakakillerg/t3a8fu
https://hive.blog/musical/@steevc/re-kgakakillerg-t2kz1m
👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
Please understand how stupid it looks you acting like you care 😂😂😂😂😂
You can keep downvoting my posts hope it makes you feel better 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please bring out your other alt accounts 😂😂😂😂😂
Keep doing your masters work 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please understand you are being used
You are a puppet
You can't hide on a Blockchain 😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone can see what's going on but some are afraid to say anything 😂😂😂😂
🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑😂😂😂😂😂😂
All you are doing is showing that Hive is not decentralised 😂😂😂😂⭕👀💯😂🤣🤣🤣
Keep making that honey for your master
Just understand more people will see and more people will speak up 😂😂😂😂😂
i know my way around Hive very well I see everything and so do others
So you can keep playing your game 🎮
But just remember you are playing games with people's lives
I don't really give a fuck if you downvote me but you are messing with a lot of dangerous people
Downvote me as much as you like it changes nothing I've showed you what's going on and if you think it's ok crack on just remember karma is always around the corner
I believe in God 🙏🏾 do you ?
I don't know how people like you look at yourself in the mirror knowing what you are doing everyday
Can I ask you seriously what do you think downvoting people is going to archive?
What has it archived so far
I really hope you downvoters get the help you need and it's clear you all need to get outside more 🙏🏾
The evidence speaks for it's self
Please read and view
Hello everyone good morning good afternoon good evening where ever you are around the world 🌎 🌍 🌍 🌍 🌍
As many of you know I was downvoted on Hive by the biggest farmers on Hive 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
They think I care about rep on Hive when it means nothing in the real world 😂😂😂😂😂
It's mad how the ones doing the downvoting are farming Hive with armies of alt accounts 😂 😂
They selfvote there own shit post's and projects 😂😂😂
They like to talk a whole lot of shit 💩
But they can't Face the truth so in this post you can find the truth
This is part 3 Hive is done please do check out the previous parts
I make one big post soon I think I need to do a few more parts first
The thing is I've been called a spammer and all sorts of things but words mean nothing 😂😂😂😂
Especially when they are coming from scammers farmers downvoting racist people 😂😂😂😂
It's still so hard to believe that blocktrades is behind buildawhale usainvote and other accounts that are actively destroying Hive 😂 😂
Hive has the tech but not the brain's at the top
It's crazy that acidyo tells people about selfvoting whilst selfvoting his shit projects 💩 everyday 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Themarkymark is running the buildawhale comment farm for his master Blocktrades 😂 😂 😂
It's so funny how themarkymark account has a free pass the same as acidyo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's not hard to tell who is running Hive 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you so much for reading and viewing this post
Now I got a question for you all do you think I'm a scammer or spammer 😂😂😂😂😂
Please be honest it won't offend me 😎👍🏾
I would highly recommend you checking out the previous parts
Hive is done
Hive is Done part 2
👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾
Muchas veces no basta con un perdón necesitamos algo más, y no hablo de lo material. Las personas que nos hacen daño, dejan esa herida abierta y muchas veces es fácil de cerrar pero también es difícil de cerrar, pero es peligroso cuando cada que intentamos cerrralos nos hacemos más heridas. Una historia con mucho que contar. Fue un gran gusto leerte. Un fuerte abrazo y muchas bendiciones.
Often, forgiveness isn't enough; we need something more, and I'm not talking about material things. People who hurt us leave that wound open, and sometimes it's easy to close, but sometimes it's difficult. It's dangerous when every time we try to close it, we inflict more wounds. A story with so much to tell. It was a great pleasure to read your post. Warmest regards and many blessings.