Golden Prison Sells

I was thinking, that if I could go back in time and not buy the house we are in now, I would still choose to buy it. It is going to get a bit difficult at some point if I am unable to find some work, but I still think that had we stayed where were were in an apartment, we wouldn't be in a very different position than today, because anything extra would have probably been spent on stuff that didn't hold value, or generate any value. We might have travelled more in the last five years, but would it have made much of a difference to our lives?

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I don't think so.

Travel is great of course, but I am not sure how "valuable" it is to just go on beach holidays to warm places, to get out of the winter cold or autumn rains. And travelling with a child changes things too, especially one with food allergies. We went to Croatia a couple years ago and it was great to get away for our first ever family holiday abroad, but as an experience it wasn't much of one. The things that Smallsteps really remembers, was a bumbling waiter who reminded me a little bit of Basil Fawlty. As she gets older though, travel definitely does become an experience of value.

It is almost an expectation from many of the people I know that they are able to travel to other countries a couple times a year, and for increasingly long periods. I get it from those who really are financially secure, but I know many who can't really afford the costs, but feel that it is something worth getting into debt for, using credit cards and even taking personal loans.

I feel that there has been a bit of a bait-and-switch, where the saying is "buy experience" but experience has become a consumer good, that isn't necessarily delivering much of an experience. It is a similar thing to a lot of consumer activity these days, where there is a substitute product that gives a similar feeling to the original, but doesn't actually deliver the value of it. It is like fruit flavouring, but not having any of the vitamins of a fruit. Everything from food to love has had some level of substitution applied.

Yet, I am not sure if we even acknowledge the conditions we have created for ourselves, where we expect to be able to spend, even if we don't have the money for it. It is like we feel we are entitled to have something now, regardless of our situation. Or something as a reward for good behaviour, even if we can't afford it. Or more commonly than for good behaviour, a reward for working at a terrible job - even if it isn't a terrible job at all.

Most don't know what a terrible job really is.

Most of us are probably pretty spoiled, because we likely have never had to work a truly terrible job in order to make ends meet. But, many of us have probably worked some pretty crappy jobs. I know I have worked many food prep jobs when young, which weren't that bad all of the time, but were pretty bad some of the time. Especially since when I started, I was vegetarian. But, the reality is that once there is a "lifestyle" to maintain, it means that a certain amount of income is required, and if it is not coming in, the lifestyle has to change.

Any crappy job?

The employment market is pretty terrible in Finland at the moment, and it isn't about being uneducated. The amount of people with degrees who are unemployed has never been higher, which indicates at some level what kind of impact automation is having on multiple fields. It doesn't take that much to have a significant impact, and some of it can be "invisible" because while it is clear that many are put out of work, it is less clear when it is that companies don't need to even create a role in the first place. Smaller growth companies are where the largest amount of new jobs come from, but a lot of the tasks they used to need someone for, can be automated. And, a lot of the small businesses that used to rely on human services, have applications that fill the gaps.

What this means is that while over the last however many years, people have built up lifestyles steadily, that are becoming increasingly unsustainable because of cost of living pressures, stagnant wage growth, and increasing professional unemployment. It doesn't matter to the majority of the population if the companies and institutions are making record profits and trading at all time highs, for the people who are forced to lower their earned standard of living.

There is an imbalance in the economic results of participants, where a system that should be looking to improve human experience, is doing the opposite. And, we are all prisoners of the system, because even as it improves its wealth generation activities, daily conditions degrade. This can be evidenced by the increasing amounts of homelessness, drug addiction, loneliness, depression, and a thousand other things that were never considered a future risk of being an epidemic.

But here we are.

All of life is an experience, including the difficulties and struggles we each face. Yet, I think that ultimately we should be looking to improve the quality of experiences we have as humans, not reduce the quality in order to produce more wealth for a small percentage of people. I don't think it benefits those that get wealthy in the long run either, because while money buys some freedom, if society degrades enough, they won't be free to travel anywhere safely. They will have to put up walls, arms the guards, and they will be in golden prisons also.

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I have been in such cases, doing a terrible work, at the end didn't receive any payment from it.

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Lol, you didn't even get paid for it? Why?

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Due to the company set policy I'm not aware of before getting into the job.
The details policy was not made available to me, so I have worked for 1 months to release they don't pay new staff during holiday.

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The employment market is pretty terrible in Finland at the moment

As in the US as well.

Plus we don't have the social safety note that you do. So wealth gap is increasing almost on a monthly basis. It is so 'at your face' you can touch and feel it!

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You should b grateful your from the first world country. Here in the Philippines, everything is terrible, health care skyrocketed, food skyrocketed, job market all time low (thanks to AI), killings, looting, drugs, and just a few days ago, the government just declare a food emergency.

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You should b grateful your from the first world country.

Well, living in one now ;)

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It is a terrible state of affairs in the economy at the moment. But it is going to continue this way as long as we choose governments that equate wealth of the few as wellbeing of the many.

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When I was a kid my parents pretty much always factored in some kind of historic thing whenever we went on long trips. That made it kind of nice, a little more than being a beach bum and actually giving the trip a little bit of value. I agree with you though, I still want to do a lot of traveling, but I wonder how "worth it" it is. I think big trips just set you up to waste the current time you have. You sit and wait for them to come and then they are gone in a flash and you have lost all those moments in between.

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When I was a kid my parents pretty much always factored in some kind of historic thing whenever we went on long trips.

Yep. We did the same in Croatia, and spent a couple days exploring Dubrovnik city. However, I think Smallsteps was a little young to appreciate much of it, though she had fun.

Friends were just in the Canary islands, and while a great getaway for their purpose, it really is a "do nothing" kind of place for the most part.

You sit and wait for them to come and then they are gone in a flash and you have lost all those moments in between.

This is an interesting thought also. I remember reading a long time ago that planning a holiday is just as relaxing as going on one, and in some cases, more so.

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I can see that. Yeah, my wife and I aren't really the lay on the beach sort, so we don't need to worry about that. We didn't it once around the pool in Vegas, but one morning was about enough for us. We have pretty fair skin, so the sun isn't too kind to us in general!

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We never experience traveling outside the country as family for some reason. Of course 1st is traveling outside the country is expensive if you came from a. Third world country. 2nd, paying bills is priority and the food price here skyrocketed. Lastly, I am a slave of 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. corporate job earning an equivalent of 1000 dollars monthly salary.

Job market here in the Philippines is terrible. Companies don't hire people who is not a college graduate, that is the list requirements (College Graduate) they have. Even if the job is as simple sa cashiering or parking attendants applicants need to be a college graduate.

However, there is an exception, job like janitor, gardener and the like, you should at least minimum a college level.

With all those requirements for perfections, minimum salary 10 dollars/day, isn't enough for surviving. Surviving in third world country is tough, a need for a side hustle is must if you want to get ahead.

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Yep, it depends a lot on where you are starting from in case of international travel. When I was a kid, we didn't travel much at all, and never internationally. My first "overseas" trip was to New Zealand, which is exotic - if not an Australian :)

Companies don't hire people who is not a college graduate, that is the list requirements (College Graduate) they have

It is much the same here, but they aren't even hiring a lot of them these days. It is crazy that a degree has more value than skill.

Surviving in third world country is tough, a need for a side hustle is must if you want to get ahead.

I have never had to do it, but my father came from one (at the time) and as a result, had a very strong work ethic his whole life. He was also never picky about food - all food is good.

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I think experiences are worth it, though in America I don't think that there is an expectation to travel multiple times a year abroad. That seems to be a European thing.

So far we traveled once outside the USA with our eleven year old daughter and it was to Canada. Just a couple hours drive in our SUV from Seattle area to Vancouver British Columbia.

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though in America I don't think that there is an expectation to travel multiple times a year abroad

I think this has to do with holidays. I have heard that "two weeks" is pretty standard in the US, whereas in Finland for example, it is 4 weeks in the summer and 1 in the winter. I think another thing is that the US is so big that it has a lot of different environments in country.

I thought you would go to Canada a lot to get away from the crime and drugs, and spend time with nice people ;P

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Most don't know what a terrible job really is.

Any crappy job?

Yes, I've seen many crappy jobs. But the big advantage is that many of these terrible and crappy jobs are not so easy to be substituted or replaced by artificial intelligence.

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Everything has become a commodity, even pleasure. It is really boring to find yourself in competition to travel and enjoy. Unfortunately, all of this shows its negative impact on our mental and physical health.

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Everything has become a commodity, even pleasure

Indeed. Friendships also. People don't put effort into a relationship, unless they are getting something immediately out of it in payment.

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After Covid, the financial balance of the world has been disrupted. Maybe someone specifically wanted this. Naturally, this has caused increased unemployment. The fact that Generation Z does not want to work in difficult jobs is also related to these.
Also.
The best conditions in the world should not be enjoyed by only a small segment, we must change this order.

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The fact that Generation Z does not want to work in difficult jobs is also related to these.

Yes. I wonder how many graduates have never had a proper job, because they don't want to do anything that they don't want to do.

The best conditions in the world should not be enjoyed by only a small segment, we must change this order.

I completely agree. But, it can't be up to that small group to make the change, because they have little incentive to.

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I am not sure whether one should have a financial secure to travel abroad as having vacation in my country has been more expensive than abroad in recent years, which is odd.

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I have never been outside of Lithuania. I don't even remember the last time I went to watch a basketball game. On one hand tickets are quite expensive. On the other hand I developed a bit of irrational fear that in such a mass of people someone could steal my phone/ wallet. That never happened before but I still believe that this could happen. Also I don't drive a car so getting home on a bus takes time.

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«Everything... has undergone some degree of substitution.»

"Shrinkflation" applies not only to products but even to feelings.

For decades, the great monopolies and oligopolies of the market have sold us an "empty" lifestyle; getting out of this cycle of spiritual and material indebtedness is not easy, the entire global system is designed to keep us this way...

The search for true experiences that add value to our lives is becoming an increasingly scarce resource.

Excellent reflection!

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ahhhh yes.. those golden prisons.. This reminds me of one job in particular, that I enjoyed, but was 'let go' from.. :(

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