Self-Imposed Deadlines

When you come across the SMART goals strategy, the T stands for time-bound. This is a rather fixed variable that works to transform abstract aspirations into concrete plans.

A goal without a deadline remains perpetually in the realm of possibility, never fully materializing into reality.

I personally appreciate the limitations that come with having a deadline. It's a neat way of moving through existence, given that whatever has a beginning will have an end and vice versa.

Experientially, it's in the in-between phase of a beginning and an end that much of the growth occurs.

And when the end is an event that looms large in one's mind, it creates a particular kind of creative tension without which we could find ourselves by default adrift in endless possibilities, paralyzed by too many options rather than liberated by them.

Paradox of Constraints

There's an interesting dynamism behind self-imposed deadlines that contradicts our intuitive relationship with limitations. We typically view constraints as negative, such as things that restrict us, hold us back, or diminish our freedom.

But one could also view self-imposed deadlines as a voluntary limitation that expands our capacity rather than diminishes it, provided they are truly self-imposed rather than externally dictated, of course.

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Deadlines In the Age of Infinite Access

Today, I'm writing on a self-imposed deadline, contemplating the practical limitations and their positive dimensions.

This practice stands in stark contrast with the modernity culture of frictionless limitations, in the sense that easy access to almost everything (information, experiences, options) should eliminate the need for constraints.

In our digital age, we've engineered away many natural limitations:

• Information is instantly accessible
• Communication is immediate
• Entertainment is endless
• Options for how to spend our time multiply daily

As it is becoming clear to many of us, abundance creates its own problem. One of them being the paralysis of perceived infinite choice and the shallow engagement that comes from constant distraction.

In this regard, the modern condition can sometimes best be pictured as skimming across the surface of everything and deeply engaging with nothing.

Self-imposed deadlines serve as a countermeasure to this condition. They carve out defined spaces within which we can move beyond skimming broadly and experience the depth that comes with sustained attention.

When we set a deadline for ourselves, we are essentially saying: "Within this finite space of time, I will accomplish something specific." As an effect, it also transforms the boundless digital landscape into navigable territories, much easier for the mind to navigate.

The Existential Dimension of Deadlines

At a deeper level, self-imposed deadlines echo our existential condition. We are finite beings with limited time. Each of us faces the ultimate deadline—our mortality—which gives meaning and urgency to our choices.

As an example, an entrepreneur who gives themselves six months to test a business concept is engaging with mortality's ultimate lesson, must act within limits to create anything of value.

Without this self-imposed constraint, they might perpetually refine the concept without ever launching, more or less trapped in the illusion of unlimited preparation time.

In some ways, the deadline acknowledges that all ventures exist within the larger deadline of a human lifespan, where testing, failing, learning, and redirecting must happen within bounded timeframes if they are to happen at all.

Practical Applications

1. Creative work - Setting time constraints for drafts, iterations, or completion
2. Decision-making - Allocating specific timeframes after which a choice must be made
3. Learning - Creating study schedules with clear milestones
4. Relationship cultivation - Dedicating specific, undistracted time for meaningful connection
5. Personal development - Establishing checkpoints for reflection and reassessment

In each case, the deadline could serve primarily as a disciplinary tool.

But what's more important than that is it creates a frame that brings the important work into focus, separating it from the background noise of perceived infinite possibilities of our modern age.


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