Lack of efforts can change the narrative

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Again this is another matter.
With just these two prompts from week 9 and 10 by @therealtalkk community I'm very convinced that no other community can rival this because the prompt here cuts so deep that anyone will just start thinking.

Does love fade when the bill arrives?

I will say yes and no due to some reasons.
love doesn't fade when the bill arrives but it can disappear when there is no effort at all, so love is when two different people find themselves attracted to each other not only physically but emotionally they come together to be lovers.
There are certain things we need to understand before coming to the conclusion of if love truly fades due to lack of money, I know you're now asking why I say love doesn't fade when the bills arise.

Men are naturally providers, they always want to provide and if anything happens that they can't take up the bill it is expected of the lady to help, the help here is not a constant one it's just something so temporal, and when the lady can't also help that's when their love will start straining and stressing both of them but this doesn't take away the initial thing which is love.

Secondly women like to be protected and cared for by their men not because they are lazy and can't work or provide for themselves. It's just a sense of loyalty to the man, rather than not taking on the bill except need be.
I'm writing this as a man and my point is based on my view, a woman can persevere and endure lack for as long as she See's the effort of the guy but the worse can happen if the man doesn't work towards rehabilitation of his financial life, this is when the woman start thinking about the reason for the love in the first place and it may raise questions in her mind, questions like “are we just lovers for lovers sake? Where exactly is this relationship heading to?
It's just a difference in the nature of man and woman, men don't mind picking up a girl from the street to marry but women prefer men who either are established or have potentials.
The man on the other hand might begin to lose interest when he realize he can't even Carter for his lover

So yeah with this few points of mine love has the tendency of fading when the is no money.

Thanks for stopping by
I'm @sylvasticks
The first image is AI generated with my prompt
The second image is mine



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Thank you for sharing I seems t agree on the part can endure with the man as long as she sees the effort but it takes a real woman to do that and also the end part where you said a man can lose interest if he doesn't work towards rehabilitation but why won't a man want to secure that loves the only way I see this coming is if he doesn't love the woman anymore that's my own reason.

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nicely written...yeah I would agree to your argument.... thanks for the tag will hop in pretty soon

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