The other side of Me.

Hello my beautiful and lovely hiveghana community hope your weekend is going just you planned it.
Well I can't say the same initially I didn't want to write tonight because of the way am feeling but something just said drop it out. I hate being taken for granted and I don't know how to pretend to be okay when am not.
I'm someone that will go all out for you no matter what we are doing I can go an extra mile just to see you happy but when it comes to me people can't do quater of this to me. Why is it hard for people to be nice honestly it cost nothing to me to do quater this.

So when people behave in a funny way to me it gets to me and am a very emotional person. To me it the little things that matters. If you follow my blog you will see that I always write from my heart. Am that emotional and hive is my place of out pouring freely without fear of what anyone will say. Here I have been able to unburned and share some very personal memories some sad and others happy but they are my mine to share and I choose to share it and it has helped me also to heal more. That's me.

Sometime back I read a book and I really can't remember the title of the book but I will like to share one thing I took from it and it has helped the other side of me now.

Here's how I reacted when am angry 😡😡😤😤 what I learnt from the book.
When am angry
I say nothing
Do nothing
I walk away

If it's a chat I stop chatting immediately after a hmmm 🤔.

If it's a call I drop it immediately and don't take it again .

Has this worked for me Yes. Because if I keep on that discussion I will breakdown 💔💔💔 in tears and I may say something I will regret saying. And this is me because I know words are very powerful am very careful of what I say when I say it and how I say it. Not that I can't shout or react in a way that this person will see that am hurting but this single action of walking away speaks louder than reacting. My boyfriend prefers me to react rather than say nothing but I can't change this part of me . Why say something I will regret saying words are like to an egg once it's said it's broke and you can't fix a broken fresh egg no matter how you try its broken and that's it.
I do it with my parents as well because I rather keep mute than say hurtful words. This is also by virtue of experience.
As always let's interact more in the comments section. I like to know what works for you 😜😜. Till next week have a fabulous weekend 💞