Hello learners and friends 🥰💕.

Another intriguing topic from #hiveleaners and I know its one everyone will love ❤️ because learning never ends. So we keep learning from one another on points of views.

While growing up I had it many times from my mother that there should be no hurry in life as this can help up get focused if we stay steadily moving towards our goal. And staying without hurry in life does not mean we can not succeed through the end of our time on earth 🌎.

What we humans don’t know is that life is a mystery on its own. Our destiny has been patterned in a way that we can not change things on our own, so why the hurry and stressful lifestyle? Being everywhere at the sane time? Doing many things at the same time which most times make things worse for us. Honestly speaking, this is not a good pattern of lifestyle

My motto since I became a full grown adult who makes decisions on her own is to live a lifestyle of “one step before another “ I mean why wanting to achieve too many things at the same time? Why the hurry when I know that might not change things. I like doing my things is a gradual way which needs lots of patience at all time. This system of lifestyle has helped me achieve things, but the only problem here is that things might be delayed a bit before they happen. But I tell you it gives me peace of mind.

I know we all have individual differences and do also approach things in different ways which is where our temperaments comes in. Why we act the way we act? How we see things in different perspectives? Why some us does not have patience? And in all, why must we live a slowly paced lifestyle while the world 🌍 is moving so fast paced. But we forgot that there are certain things we can’t handle on our own because they are made that way because of destiny. This means some certain things that happens to us in life are definitely beyond our control.

Focus is one very important factor in life because it helps us to know what we aim at, what we want to achieve at a certain time. What are the things we don’t want to be involved with to avoid hindrances. What are the things we want to give up on. So if don’t pay attention due to how we are everywhere at the same time, we will then mix out on things.

Many also live their lives complaining over things that are not relevant because the lack focus and just keep worrying. In fact, “its Not How Far In Life” Its How Well”. This is why you will see those who started early that has not made it. And others who just started not long making it. This is destiny, which is why some things are not in our control and forcing them will lead to more struggles for us.

I think 💭 we need to take a pause sometimes in life to reflect over our actions, our lifestyles , how we think and see things, what we have tried that did not work, the new things we want try and where we have mixed things together. One oldest adage I learnt from my father is “ An time a man wakes up is his morning” This is an adage that has a very depth meaning. God can choose to bless any one even at their old age ofter years of struggles without success.

This is my response to the #hiveleaners featured prompt for week 206, edition 02, titled “A PERSONAL MOTTO “.

Thank you for reading friends 🥰

Best Regards @sunshine29 🧡

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