My Weakness Is Kindness To Others.

I don’t really know if our temperaments are what controls our personalities, characters and behaviors or we are created in such a way that everyone of us has a mindset that nothing can change, because I have seen people I feel that are so nonchalant in attitude. People you come across in the path of life that behaves as if tomorrow does not exist. And I have also seen many who carry other peoples problems as if its theirs. This is the irony of life.

My weak point being kindness is one I have carried all my life. Although I could say being kind to people has made many take me for granted but how about those who has appreciated every little kindness shown to them? And how about the joy we derive from caring for others? These are the questions I ask myself when someone I have helped never appreciate the good deeds.

Kindness comes in different ways and forms, it could be act of helping someone financially, it could be motivational, looking out for those who are in need for food, or even friends you supported in times of their various needs. What matters most is the joy we derive from doing them. Showing kindness.

I love ❤️ giving and caring. And I love motivating others especially those who I cross part with who needs sometimes our time, words of encouragement or directions to be able to find their purpose in life. And we should always bear in mind that showing kindness to others does not mean you must expect something back.

It happens most times that when we help others, we expect something in return but this then is not kindness. But many has taken us for granted after helping them out. This is human nature because our mind works in different concepts, some will appreciate no matter how little, while others will feel you owe it to them because of friendship .

I have a friend whom I was always looking out for, we share thoughts 💭 together, advice and helps ourselves with encouragement. When she is in need of financial assistance, I will help her out if I have at that point in time. But as time goes things started to improve for her which I was happy about.

Then it appears as time went by that I was the only one putting effort in our friendship. I will call her severally, visit her outlet to see how things are doing, even when she is not there, I will leave a message but most times she does not call back nor reach out to me. This is the case of those kindnesses that was not appreciated but another of my friend behaves exactly opposite of the other of my friend. And we have continued to be in friendship.

And in the cause of my work, I have met some clients that are so appreciative of how you go about helping them extraordinarily, making sure to make them achieve their desires at your own expense. And some workers at the construction 🚧 site who believed you have helped them immensely to support their families through making sure they are always and constantly have work to do to earn no matter how small.

We can never have it all is the conclusion because we must have our weaknesses in one area or the other. No matter how hard we try, there is a weak point some where that will always pull us down, one people will use against you knowing you can’t do anything about it. But its okay because we are formed in human nature.

This is my entry to the Hivelearners topic for #hl-w127e1 which is # “A WEAK POINT”.

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