MOM#264: The pains of motherhood

Section #264 of the MOTHERHOOD diary.

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oh,Nobody ever teaches you how painful motherhood is but they always show the pictures where everyone is smiling.

As you can see already it’s going to be a tough post, maybe with a very sad or painful tone but yes, it is what it is!

From my epistle and chronicles of life, thats where this story originated.

Mothers are very special and amazing creatures, they are the best and most intentional kind of lovers. The way a mother loves is wayyy differnt from how a teenager or a young adult would love, that is to say someone who hasn’t experienced motherhood.
I know you can argue with me for as long as you like but yes thats very correct, imagine that God did not create the woman after creating Adam, maybe the world would hae been in shambles today, maybe there’d have been more chaos than order, maybe there would have been an unbalanced world where we have just man and animals, no serious purpose!, that would have been very crazy.

Now let’s talk about the bone of contention. Mothers are known to be super resilient over time and thats not fictional, mothers are carriers of pains in different ramifications and it is such a sad reality that it now feels normal

One ☝ of which is The Silent Night Pain
i bet we all know how mothers cry at night, clean their tears and still show up strong in the morning like nothing happened to continue a new phase of responsibilities, livelihood and survival
do you know why mothers cry at night? Because thats the only time they have to cry. Oh you want your 3 year old princess to see you crying and soaking your sofa because you can’t afford rent or because of societal pressures?

moving further we all agree that women naturally experience the highest amount of body pains than males on an average, mothers especially this is because asides having to work amd to other physical things to survive women would take pains, i mean some get hit by vehicles when hawking in some countroes like africa while some in europe and America dies to. Pay taxes and bills, especially those that are single mothers, thats another pain very sad!!! After all these a mother still has to face the great labour pain during childbirth
hmmm i even forgot to add how my mom was crying late night years ago when she jist birthed my brother, her last child. She was in pains from labour even after my brother was 1 year old sometimes the experience would hunt her and she would cry at night

Asides all these she still has so much pains to feel!, she is prone to lose things natirally to focus on motherhood, sometimes they lose friends jobs families and wven opportunities to focus on us. Take one sec close your eyes and clap for your mom, she is a veteran

Mothers are very amazing, ypu dont see all they go through except what they show you. Im reality mothers heart is a battlefield where she fights silently even when she keeps smiling. Do you know one thing that amazes me the most? That is how she wakes up and chooses love again. That is her miracle!

This is my response to LOH #contest 264
Thanks for reading my post! 🙏❤🫶🏻

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