My Thoughts On Womanizing
A friend of mine was around yesterday, and most of the things we talked about were women. LOL, he happens to like women a lot and same here too. I would not hide it, but that does not make me a womanizer. In fact, I try my best not to be one, no matter how tempting it is, but my friend is totally a womaniser, and if I told him to his face, he would definitely argue with me.
Why is he a womanizer? While he was with me all through the night, we talked about different ladies he is dating and also some he is in a talking stage with. Omoor, all the ladies we talked about yesterday were at least 10 ladies.
What I like about him is that he doesn't have sex with different ladies and sincerely told me he had not slept with any of the ladies he talked about, which is a good side of him. All he does is have the fun of wooing them, enjoy the talking stage, and enjoy the romance that comes after that.
What is the difference between me and him?
That's what you would want to know
I am in a serious relationship; that is the difference, but that does not mean I don't appreciate God's art when I see it. There are some works of art that should be appreciated from a distance and do not require getting close.
My friend is the type of person that can die for an ass, as he jokingly told me that he can marry a woman that is not pretty, but as long as she has an ass, she is good for him. I was like, You don't mean it?
I know you would be wondering if I am the ass or boobs lover?
Now, womanising has become a normal thing among young and old men. Personally, I feel it is something that would be difficult to stop if one did not stop because there is always someone more beautiful. They always say, The beautiful ones are not yet born.
When a young man gets used to moving from one woman to another, he finds it difficult to stay with one woman when it is time for him to settle down. Imagine now having different sexual experiences from different ladies; it would be very difficult for his wife to settle his sexual urge and the experiences he has gotten from different ladies. The way Ronke and Precious would have given it to him would be totally different from the person he is marrying.
This is why cheating is rampant these days because men are used to what they did in their youth. They are used to tasting different women and not settling for one. I get it; it is not easy to eat one food every day, as they say, but if you had been eating one food every day from the start, you would have gotten used to it.
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It's totally true that sometimes, we get to appreciate beauty when we see one.
However, most of these ass thingy is all in the mind. Clothes are good ways to package backside. But the real thing is mostly not as good as it on clothes. The whole cheating thing is just to satisfy the imagination, there's nothing fulfilling or special there.
Exactly! It is all in quests to satisfy one's fantasy. And truth is they would find but they would see. Then it goes on and on.
Now, I am wondering if your friend can actually settle down with his wife when he finally get married. Just like what you said,"if you had been eating one food every day from the start, you would have gotten used to it".
Men are moved by what they see..lolz, that's the case of your friend... good enough he doesn't engage in sexual relationship with them but have a limit to his game. You are totally different from him, nothing wrong in admiring God's beautiful art from afar ...I commend your stand in relationship.
Thank you very much! I try to leave my life by some set values and keep my mind away from thoughts that go against my values. Also I try to distance myself from friends who live their live based on things that goes against my values.
Womanizing isn't my thingy not because I don't like ladies but because of the after effect that comes from moving from one lady to another; it's almost unstoppable.
And appreciating beauties, oh yeah! I do that a lot, who doesn't like beauty?. But I do that from a distance. One just need to continually purge one's mind of these thoughts, from thoughts they can become actions.
Exactly! If one dwells on those thoughts they become actions. There is something they say, you become what you think.