A SMILE FROM A DISTANT RELATIONSHIP

3 days ago (Edited)

It doesn't have to be nearer or closer so as to be perfect, even a distance love can make your dreams. I have heard of people finding love from the social media and building it until they settle together as one. I always feel amazed. "How can you be comfortable with a person whom you have never known before ?", Have been asking myself this question.

One day, {If I could cast my mind perfectly through the past}, Nnati a friend of mine is this gentle young guy, who usually love to mind his business, perfect in speech and doings, informed me he was coming to spend some days with me from Abuja.

After one week, Nnati came in. We had time to discuss lots of things. He has been away for over twelve years without visiting and I was curious to ask why the sudden visit? He smiled at me and said; "have been in a relationship with a lady have never seen in my life before physically, but she seems very nice to me, and I find joy every now and then we make communication. She stays here in Cross River, and I have decided to come so we can perfect what we started". Really! I answered. "So you have stayed in ABJ {Abuja} for long now without coming to see me your friend, but a lady whom you are excited about as put a call and boom! you are here, how sure this lady is a perfect match for you?", He smiled and said; "If I find peace being with her, I don't have to think twice".

Long story cut short; today Nnati is Happily married to the Lady with two kids, and according to his respond to the chat we had recently, he confirmed that he has found peace in his life. I have heard of so many people who have found genuine partners through their connection from social media. usually, I find it hard to believe until the day I witness that with my friend.

Most times people feel that the nearer a partners is, the better the intimacy and trust. But the truth is, true and genuine partner shares a kind of bond that can never be altered by physical distance. As the matter of fact, most don't feel distance between them by the help of technology. Now people can video chat with each other sharing feelings and experience and It will seem as if both were together in the same location at the same time.

Recently, I have experience this also, and it feels so perfect to me, sharing thoughts, experiences and feelings becomes more easier and so loving. From my experience, I believe that one can definitely find genuine companion with the help of technology.

It is also important to know that while they maybe be chances to find true partners through social media, there are also people who's intentions are negative and for evil, so it is so important to be guided with intelligence and pray God for divine guidance so you don't fall into wrong hands. Overall, I believe that social media has significantly transformed our relationship and communication system in several ways and has improved the quality of distant relationship. Thanks for stopping by.