Relationship red flags
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Am here to share my view on a topic "Red flags in relationship".
Man in general is a relational being, therefore a man cannot live in isolation,in this context I'll be talking about love relationship between people of opposites gender. The word red flag in the other hand implies " danger" and from all indication one needs to pay care attention when such red flags are manifesting.
It's quite unfortunate that many a times persons in love are blinded by love and ignored these "red flags" flashing to their faces and then venturing into a lifelong journey full of caricature and lots of regrets. They say "love is blind" but is that really true??
Furthermore, let check some these habits I personally consider as red flags
- No or little commitment# the relationship is one sided, he/she doesn't reciprocate the love, maybe it use to be mutual but no anymore, my dear please leave
- Doesn't accept corrections and is unteachable# Those people that know all and needed no one to correct or teach them, personally it's a big NO
- Always complained about your going to church and commitment to Jesus# " you too carry this Jesus and church for head" Aaah what do you want me to carry instead?? As a Christian this is a big danger already, so please flee
- Has no respect for elders or humans in general# You watched him/her shouting and treating persons old enough to be their parents, you see how they treat their staff, no single iota of respect. And you're still there? Please go🙄 yes go
- Raises his voice and lifts his hands# someone that react angrily over a little misunderstanding and even treating to beat you,oh he even did 🤔 he will kill you in marriage please run
- When communication becomes scarce# communication is a very major tools for a flourishing relationship, but when effective communication is scarce please check again
To mention but a few, I will love to stop here.
In conclusion, it's unwise to see danger and still venture on it,a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, relationship is not marriage, you can trust God to start all over again.please walkout if things become soar for the sake of your peace.
Thank you
Thanks for this!
Your redflags are actually reasonable @sintiki
I honestly find men that brutalize ladies as scallywags. There's always an alternative other than inflicting injuries on each other..
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