Finding a balance
Happy new year to everyone
Hope we had a good day?, this is a nice topic to treat, finding a balance, it is imperative to find a balance in everything we do in life
My own life has been all about finding a balance because I am a married man with three kids, so finding a balance is what i do daily, i have to find a balance between me and my spouse, because marriage to me is about equal rights, i currently own a bakery and my wife always helps me out despite the fact that i have workers working for me
I on the other hand help my wife with home chores at times, we share almost everything, starting from work to responsibilities and home chores even taking care of our little ones, and we enjoy doing it, mainly because we are not forced or coerced to do it.
Some couples help each other out only because of what people might think or say, they help each other only to save face, finding a balance in marriage shouldn't be forced, if you ever find yourself in a condition of being forced or doing things in your marriage that you are not happy about, then you need to let your partner know, if they don't know they might think you are comfortable with it and that is detrimental to your happiness.
Apart from finding a balance between me and my wife, i am also always tested to find a balance between my family and her family and even among my kids
Let's talk about my kids first, anytime i want to buy something for one of them then my budget has to be for two because my last born is still a baby, but my two girls always expect nothing less than equal treatment, girls like to compete with themselves especially when it comes to fashion
My In-laws on the other hand has to be taken care of by their daughter, and my wife don't make it easy, anytime I buy something for her mom she will not give it to her unless i buy the same thing for mine too, she makes sure everybody is treated equally, she balances everything, finding a balance goes a long way it does not only ends in marriage it stretches to other part of everyones life, you have to balance work and at the same time make time for family, but without work family cannot stand,
Anything you do just make sure you achieve something tangible for a day, that is how you find a balance, have a laser beem focus, you cannot balance everything at a time but pick two or three for a day and give it all you have got, we can only do as much as our ability can take us.