Learning to Identify Which Expectations Deserve Your Energy
Expectations are one of those particular aspects and our life that are definitely going to be existing in one way or the other and it is not always going to be something that we are going to have within our ownself but has we are social in nature there will be a lot of people who are also going to be having some sort of expectation from us which is something that definitely ads up on our list in terms of the things that we have to be getting done.
In many such situations when we feel that we are not having a particular clarity in thoughts about the things that we have to be doing as even after doing a lot of things we are not ready having that feeling of fulfillment and we are not really sure about why that is happening and it actually is happening because there are a lot of things that we are caring among them is the expectation that other people have from us.
Having to do something that is not a particular aspect that has originated from our side might not always align with the values that we have or the plans that we have already made and in that regard it definitely seems to be something that is a particular pressure on us which definitely makes us give a little bit extra effort and think about them in a different way as well to actually make them stay in the way they have to be kept.
However handling those Expectations is never going to be easy because we already have something that we want from our ownself and that is when we are brought up with some other ones which are actually put on top of us as we can't really be choosing them as well but it definitely adds up a little bit of more weight in the form of the borrowed expectations.
We need to be actually identifying the Expectations that people have from us because no one is going to be giving us some task to do that we have to be getting done no matter what but it is something that happens in a gradual form in the way when something then people wants us to do gets absorbed in us in a very gradual manner which is something that is often going to be coming within our very close circle.
It is quite natural to happen because people who are closed towards will generally internetly have some sort of expectation from us it can be our family who wants us to do something or get a particular achievement done and it can also be someone really close to US so my have some sort of emotional expectation from us and in that regard everything will person that we have connection with his going to have some sort of expectation which is something that we are a subject to.
There are many social Expectations as well that people around us who don't really have any kind of connection with us also happened to have from us as well which is something that is also a particular thing that we have to be experience in as well but most of the times it is something that does not matter to us but just because we are existing with in a society we have to be thinking about it in some or the other way.
One of the things that we should be trying to have in our mind while trying to deal with all of the Expectations with us is going to be about asking ourselves a certain question that is going to be clearly helping us define the people who are having those expectations from US and if it is something that really matters to us along with the things that if they are aligning with our own thought process.
Sometimes it becomes really important as well to be going out of our way and to actually meet up with the Expectations that people have from us it is coming from someone really special and we have to be making sure that we do and up getting that done which is something that becomes necessary in certain times and there is also something that we should be keeping in mind to be actually taking that pressure on us.
The biggest thing that we need to actually understand is going to be the difference between the responsibilities that we have which also comes in the form of Expectations and also the things that actually were never meant for us and once we are getting through that particular phase, things are going to be much simpler for us and that is something which we should be looking forward towards achieving as well.
At the end of the day it is going to be ask who is going to have the biggest priority among every other thing that we are surrounded with which is something that we should never forget and treating Expectations in that particular way is also something that is quiet necessary which is something that we should be trying to managers well because when we are actually managing to shape our life in the exact way which we want and also in a very balance form with the Expectations that people who matter to us is going to be the best thing that we can actually create which is something that we should be trying to target as well.
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