RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”

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This is an interesting topic. Let the gbas gbos begin because we are wired differently and so can't always see things from the same perspective.

Three qualities that I desire In a partner are:

1.)Home Management Experience:
This quality is very important because marriage is a business that happens on a stage called HOME. A lady who has got an experience on how to manage a home(maybe while she was a spinster in school or any other environment) has got the experience of financial management, home management and basic housekeeping at a go.

2.)Level of Morality:
Trust is one the most important things in marriage. A lady who has a high moral standard will produce the following fruits: trust, love, fidelity and decency. The good thing is that, she can easily relay these fruits to her children.

3.)Supportive:
Women are meant to be helpers/supporters to their husband. A supportive partner can easily motivate her partner. She will play the support role and not make the man to be retrogressive. Emphasis is on SUPPORT.

What's your thoughts @lecia89 @uniquezee @justfavour @agmoore @beckyroyal @sam.hangout @treasuree



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I already shared my thoughts jawe. You go need search am down down

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You never talk the one you fit compromise

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Alright. Regarding the one I can compromise. I can accept if she is NOT supportive. I can sweep that one under the carpet. @lecia89

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Hmmm that's cool

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Yep. But I can't trade moral standards and home management; for any reason. I value rest of mind so much, and so wouldn't want someone that will give me headache and turn me to an emergency talkative person🤣

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🤣😂the emergency talk active got me 😂😂

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Hahaha. I don't like emergency at all. I can tolerate headache from kids, but not from an adult. It's a no no for me.

Do fancy an adult that gives you headache??

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No no I don't have strength o

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Hahaha. I think say na only me wey no get strength for that.

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These qualities you wrote here are cool 👍 but I hope you can also be the same thing or give the same thing that you are looking for.

This means that you should also be a good manager, morally upright and supportive too 😁😁😁

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Haha @beckyroyal you chose to give me a dose of my own medicine.

Surely I have such qualities that's why I prefer someone with same profile.

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I strongly agree with the third one. It takes two supportive people to build a home.

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You are very correct. With the global economic crisis. There is need for both parties to work together for a better financial life @justfavour

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That's fair enough if you're willing to reciprocate it...

It's a nice one

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Yes. I don't expect from others what I cannot do. I believe in the golden rule. Best regards!

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Awwwn🥰

Sounds nice and good of you 💯

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Thank you. This topic is very interactive. Everyone is learning too. Because learning never ends.

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