Sam’s Hangout #80 -”TRANSGENDER”

Great to see Sam's Hangout #80! Love that Wittgenstein quote, really gets you thinking! 🐴👍

Happy weekend fellas…

@hopestylist @nkemakonam89 @justfavour @mayor-001 @goldenproject @chefqueen @van.illa @treasuree

Welcome to this weekend’s hangout…
@samostically

This week’s topic is very deep. This will spike a lot of conversation…

Where are my dawgs???

@soma18 you better come here now…

Ladies and gentlemen
It's the weekend....go and spend that money
Another one will come

Transgender; this is actually a deep dive, and i think this is going to be a many way thing, and that’s because a lot of people will be dropping in with different opinions and views on this…

Transgender; when it comes down to this, honestly I don’t think there’s any excuse that could make up for it. How good does it sound to hear that man completely changes himself to a woman. The question is why? What was he thinking when he made that decision…
Honestly, there could be a thousand reasons why such decision was made, it could be societal pressure, family pressure or mostly gender discrimination from early stage. Imagine drilling it into the ears of your young children that a particular gender is better than another, is that not you lighting a spark in their head. Not everyone can take that and sometimes it leaves a scar on the heart, which is why that is always the go to solution to prove yourself worthy, not knowing it’s a big mistake…

At the end of the day, it all boils down to the choice you make. Your choice determines how you are seen. At the end of the day, it’s all about you and what makes you happy, don’t be shy and choose who you are with a sound mind, don’t let the words of any get to you…

Peace out….

@samostically what you got on this?

Happy weekend my people 🥳🎉🎊

What's good ?

@hopestylist !!
Bring your head here .

Our way of life depends on our choices nothing more deeper than that, it all goes to what we feed our mind and what we let it tell our heart which brings our choice. People choose who they are, I have seen kids brought up from a deep believer home and later turn out to opp of what the parents gave her/him,if not, I would have say maybe it's what parents give out to their kids.

Many children out there suffer from peer pressure mainly because they do not have mind of their own , they get confused easily, they question their choice every now and then ,so there is nothing to be surprised if seeing people wanting to change their gender , believing that a gender has more benefits or has less responsibility. I see it all breaks down to selfishness in their life which is why they think of what could benefit them more or act of not responsible,they don't want to be accountable for anything.
@empressjay @marsdave @afrikens @goldenproject

What do you think guys ?

"Do you think people’s sense of identity can change over time, or does it usually stay consistent?"

For me, I believe anyone whose identity changes over time or lost their self of identity, then I think that person is not fit to be moving freely in the society. It just shows that that person is mentally challenged:

This is something we as a society should not accept. The fact that some people can identify as anything is just so absurd. You can identify as a cat and then you’ll expect the society to accept you are a cat, any society that accept such should know that that society is running mad and will collapse

What are your thoughts @tressuree @soma18 @desire-pen @justola1 @abdul-qudus @neysco @trojan1

Happy weekend guys!

Hmmm, this is a deep discussion and many things will be said. Lemme do and come fess...

Transgender.
The rate at which the male gender does so many things to turn to females in my country is so alarming.
At the same time, the rate at which a female tends to compete with the male gender over unnecessary things is getting too high

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I personally think that identity is a mix of both choice and influence also. Influences like upbringing and life's experience. Everyone has the choice to shape who they want to be over time. But ah, it's becoming too much already. I saw a video on instagram recently, where the girl was like she identifies as a cat so she has her friend taking care of her and treating her like a cat.

This last session in the university, I came across and saw a lot of femboys (boys that identify as girls) more than usual. The rate at which they are becoming more and more is really alarming.

Hmmm what did I missed? Todays topic is deep o

When it comes to Gender related issue then it's no option or choice. It's deeper than anyone getting to make a choice that this is the gender I want to be as long as you have found yourself to be created as a male or female and when it leads to such situation of choosing then it has turn to a case of sarcastipara la nsinto a.k.a disconjomiror

Request for translation if you're too curious 😜

@goldenproject @empressjay @chefqueen @officialdenkay @abdul-qudus let me come and check-in your flats of response or you're not here yet

Ehhh so my comment didn't go through since
Elemefieleme 🙄🙆

Greetings everyone 👋

I will be replying the first prompt question posed.

Naturally, once a child is born, the gender we see is the gender they are and grow up with. Now when a child ( male or female) decides to become something else, I believe it is a matter of choice.

The sad part is that this choice is sick and unhealthy and should be shunned greatly.

Firstly, it breaks the natural order or reproduction as stipulated by God.

Secondly, it exposes a darkness seated deep within the mind that seeks expression.

You can't literally "choose" who you are afterall, we were all born this way but to lose our identity and begin to be something we are not is just so weird.

Transitioning genders is something that our society should shun vehemently.

Be proud of who you are. Love you, believe in you and live for you.

I'm inviting @ozd, @luchyl, @rukkie, @ellizy, @patienceakoan, @faithwellington and @daverick to talk their own.

I came late, hope you left a portion of jollof for me oo

Yes a lot of people lose or change their identity over time. This is common among people from Africa who finds the opportunity to japa and are able to land themselves an opportunity to stay in their destination country like indefinite leave to remain or green card.

Majority of such people especially when they have no old parents to care for in Africa, they tend to forget their root and take up their new identity

@rukkie @beckyroyal @ozd hope you marked register already?

first of all the human mind is the engine room that propels all of our actions and inactions, and we act depending on the content of the mind how do we feed our mind? by what we are expose to: our environment, friends, peer group, society family unit.....

while some society sees trangender as a diabolic thing some others welcome it with open arms all depends on our opinion

why would a person want to transfer from one gender to another?....

I still do not have the ultimate answer to that cause whatever I say do not change anything rather just my opinion...

in conclusion whatever we re depends on our society , peer pressure, friends, surroundings what we are expose to ...

come on
@jmis101 @beautyme @chi4god @nanawrites @abiye1

This is one topic that calls for concern.
Because we keep seeing people doing all sort of things on daily basis.

But personally, I think when it comes to gender, we have no choice to make. What ever happens later in life as a result of transgender is artificial and might likely have a future effect.

So I advise people stick to their initial being. You cannot battle with the lord

This is a topic of great concern...

It's quite appalling to say we can choose who we are. At least, within the circumference of this discourse. We are who we are, and we can't change a thing about it. It's deeper than the superficial outlook given it.

Perhaps, this is just a crisis of identity not a change a person is necessarily drifting towards. This brings me to the consideration if people's sense of identity can change over time or it remains consistent.

Identity crisis again. You can't just wake up and say you feel like you're more of an opposite gender. It's a culture being sold and permeated in the mind. Will we say a person's identity changed when they begin to identity as plants too? Let's not talk animals cos some people are doing that already.

Its a drift from that natural and divine order of things. There might be societal influence and projections, but does it hold weight? It's about a culture being sold. And sadly, it's selling well.

We should do well to love and appreciate ourselves for who we are. We were created and born that way for a purpose. When one decides to go the other way, it's a case of mental instability, I'll say.

Oya, @hopestylist @beckyroyal I don chook mouth finish oo. Let's hear you too @lecia89 @emreal @soma18.

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