You have to change your destiny.
The word "feeling" does not come to everyone and the person to whom it comes does not want to understand our feelings. Never blame fate because maybe I and you cannot see what Allah has written on our foreheads, but our lives are guided according to that fate. In every person's life, good and bad things have to be combined. Even then we think that our fate is very bad. We cannot use it properly. To be honest, if we cannot work hard, then how can we use fate? You have to work hard to change your fate. If you cannot work hard, you will never be able to change your fate. Some people talk with emotions, never remember their emotions, but at any moment you will lose to your conscience.
When a person needs you, you will see that he will talk to you so well that it is impossible to explain and whenever his need is fulfilled, he will treat you so badly that you have never imagined. I believe that you have to change your destiny through your own hard work, not by blaming fate. Today's relationships depend on money. Parents, brothers, sisters, relatives, everyone has money. Everyone will look after you. How are you? Try to know where you are. One day, you will find yourself in need. Let alone your siblings, your parents will not look after you. I have heard from many people that women are selfish or that they only stay with men for money. But from what I have seen, your family members only stay with you for money. You have no money. You are in need. Have you ever seen your wife leave you? I will not say about every woman. There are some women who leave you.
Again, there are some women who think about the good and bad of their husbands and stay with them. The most important thing in our lives is that we cannot evaluate people correctly. If we could evaluate them correctly, then maybe this would never have happened. Keep fighting to reorganize your life. Maybe no one will be with you during your time of need, but the day you achieve success, everyone will try to talk shoulder to shoulder. Be grateful for everything. Leave your heart to the only great Lord of the Universe. He knows everything that will happen in front of you and to know everything, he himself has put you in need. You may have forgotten him. I may be forgetting him. That is why lack has come into our lives. Danger is something that helps us to get closer to Allah.
There is no need to explain to someone who has hurt you by speaking harshly to them a second time, what kind of person you are, just leave quietly. Keep one thing in mind. The person who feels comfortable speaking harshly to you is always a small-minded person, who can be said to be a small-minded person who enjoys criticizing. From the day he hears his own criticism from others, the people of this society become bad. I believe that I am bad because I am a human being. Everything happens to me. Sometimes there are decisions that I make consciously, and sometimes there are decisions that I make without my knowledge, but I never hesitate to admit it. I know that I am wrong, I have to learn from my mistakes.
It does not mean that if someone treated me badly and I treated him badly, then there is no difference between you and him. Keep one thing in mind. If someone spoke badly to you, there is no problem. Keep quiet. If someone treated you badly, there is no problem. Keep quiet. Because there is someone who sees everything. Then leave it alone. Being good is good. He is definitely observing everything directly. Just wait for time. No one dies if someone does not feed them. Allah Almighty has definitely arranged sustenance. No one knows when and where their sustenance will reach. No one knows when someone will eat. If someone tells you, "Don't touch my food, I will not eat from here." There is no problem in that either. Be patient and thank Allah. Sometimes you will see many people lying on the streets without food. Allah is taking their days away. I can also spend my days in the same way. Just wait for a little while. Time will show you who you are. Time will find you by being good. Everyone will be fine.