You can't be happy by hurting others.
The most beautiful moment in our life is the time of happiness. Which we try to spend with the most beloved people in our life. Relationship is a very small word. But nothing can be more beautiful than relationship in this world. There is no such thing as being good in life. I want to be good in a small amount. If I am good, I can keep people good to me. There is definitely a need to be happy in life. But there is no point in achieving your happiness by harming someone else. Many people think that if I am good, then he is good, even if he is not good, I will never worry about this. Many people ask themselves how good I am, how can I be happy myself? Do you know one thing? You will have a lot of money, you will own a lot of houses and cars, but at the end of the day you will see that you are not able to eat the food you need properly.
Honestly, I find it funny that this is normal, not so much an exception because I think I always try to tell the truth, if someone doesn't understand my truth, then there is no point in telling them a second time. You want to be happy, okay with that, you move forward little by little. Your likes and dislikes are all your personal matters, but that doesn't mean that you will try to be good yourself by hurting someone, I will never support you. Rather, if you can, help someone, at least never think of being good yourself by hurting someone. If you are thinking this, then I will say that God will never keep you good. There are many ways to be good. The easiest and best way for me is to help others. In fact, we have a lot of money, we own houses and clothes, but even after that, I don't know why we can't be healthy. Why does a disappointment work inside us, what kind of inconstancy and arrogance come up.
We get upset about our lives. In some cases, we cannot raise our children properly. In some cases, we have problems with our money. Wherever we go to do any work, we have problems. If we go to find out the main reason behind this, then I will say that the reason behind this is that you are not willing to give charity. You only think about your own well-being. Our Allah, who created us, has told us to be satisfied with whatever He has given you. Never get upset about other people's wealth. Allah sees people whether they give or not. You do not be proud that a person had a lot of money in the morning, but in the afternoon that person became a pauper. It does not take much time.
After many people hear these words, it will seem natural. You laugh, talk about someone, have fun, don't look, close your eyes for a while and think to yourself that you have left this world. You think to yourself that you are now in the grave. There is a lot of earth on both sides of you, there is earth on top of you. There is no one from your family around you. You are alone. When you are asked who your Lord is, what will you answer? Many will say, "I don't know." When you are asked, "What is your day?" What will you answer? Many will say, "I don't know." Then why did the Creator send you to this world in such a beautiful way? Why did He put so much effort behind you? The Creator doesn't want anything from us, only that we worship Him. We should follow the path shown by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him).
How many of us are there who follow the path shown by the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)? How many are there who worship in the path of Allah and stand by the helpless people in need? We are limited in our needs. I have not been able to become someone's favorite till today. I always try to help people but at the end of the day I myself break down. I don't know why I can't be good. I don't know why I can't stand by everyone. I don't know why I can't keep everyone happy despite trying a thousand times. Even after that, I try to make everyone good. I still try to make everyone happy with everyone's loved ones. But does being happy mean destroying people's lives? There are some people who want to be good by destroying others. In fact, being good by destroying someone is never possible.
We constantly try to solve the problems of our lives. Running after money is a thing of Dhaka that can solve all the problems of your life but can never bring you happiness. With money you can buy an expensive bed but can never buy sleep. You can buy expensive food but can never satisfy hunger. To make a pot, you have to keep trying. You have to work hard. Never be jealous of the success of others. Jealousy is something that will completely destroy you. Don't hurt anyone to be happy. Stand by the people on the side of the road. You can also be good.
It is very necessary to change yourself with time, but don't change so much that your family moves away from you. If you are in danger, your family will stand by you and if they stand by you, you have to sustain them. As a loving person, you will find your family close. There are some moments when everyone leaves you, but your family will never leave you. There are some people who forget their family while running after success. They stay far away from their family for years, and at some point, their family forgets them. This is not right at all. Success will definitely come to you someday, but there is nothing in this world as selfish as forgetting your family.
Whatever you do in life, you must keep your beloved family close. When you continue to follow the advice of your family, you will take advice from your family, but slowly but surely you will move towards success and this success will help you move forward a long way, but when you move away from your family, you will never be able to be good yourself. You can achieve everything in life, money, wealth, but if you fall once from the love of your family, you will not be able to stand there a second time. Your mother brought you into this world with a lot of difficulty, help her to appreciate this difficulty, maybe you will never be able to fulfill it. But try to fulfill it as much as you can, your efforts will help you move forward a long way.
Always have trust to maintain relationships because trust is something that will help you make your life beautiful. To be good in life, stay with your family. Keep your family well. May everyone be well, may Allah protect you.