Take it easy on the gene.
Sometimes it seems that our life is very easy but we make our life so difficult that it is not possible to explain it. In some cases, we never find the real meaning of life. Our life has become like a competition these days. Why can't I have more wealth and possessions? Why can't I be like someone who is very talented? As long as this competition continues between you and me, none of us will be able to enjoy life properly. At the end of the day, our time is spent only in frustration and busyness. If we could have taken life a little easier, then maybe life would have been easy for us.
Rich people think they need more wealth, middle class people think they can survive if they can somehow eat and leave this world, and lower class people think they need three handfuls of food three times a day, and nothing else. But even among them, the number of rich people is very small. They always try. When one business is successful, they have to start another business again because they want to earn more money. But in this job, they are spending a lot of valuable time of their life, not being able to give proper time to their family or sit down and talk to someone.
Some time of a person's life is spent studying and the rest of the time is spent earning money. After a while, when a person becomes lonely, when there is no one to keep him company, the number of friends also decreases a lot. You know when the number of your friends decreases when you become desperate to earn money. At one time, friends try to give you time but you don't have time. When you get old and it's your time, they no longer show interest in giving you time. Everything has a limit, but when we cross that limit, we lose a lot from our lives.
We are never prepared for everything, but some moments come in our lives that we cannot even imagine. If you can accept reality, it is difficult. If you cannot accept it, you will have to be constantly persecuted, sometimes by your own family, sometimes by your own people, and sometimes by your friends. Still, people are desperate to earn money in an effort to be good. When you stop giving time to your loved ones and spend your time only on earning money, you will see that at some point you will be completely alone. There will be no one to be with you, only some money you have earned.
Many people say that money is the key to happiness, to me it is completely foolish. Money is something that can fulfill your needs but can never bring happiness to your life. Money can never increase the amount of love you have. Money can never bring happiness to your family. It can only fulfill the needs of your family. If you have money, you may be able to sleep on an expensive bed, but you cannot buy sleep. If you have money, you can buy expensive food. But you can never buy God. We need everything in our lives, but we must pray to God. As much as is necessary to keep life going, life will be complete.
We need to reduce our life's needs a little bit, if there is so much demand, then life will end but the demand will not end, create a limit for each thing in yourself, try to earn as much as you can eat and as much as your family needs. Yes, I agree that it is good to earn a little more because when we are in danger, this income comes in handy, but in the case of some people, when they start earning extra, they start following the haram path, which is not right at all. You can survive in this world even if you earn a little money in the halal way, if you have the intention.
Stop whining. People who whine never bring happiness and peace to their families. When you start living together with a small amount of things, you will see that your family members will slowly start loving you. When you start giving them time, you will see that they will also give you time. Try to spend some good moments with you. You will see that they will also go crazy to spend some good moments with you. Be sure to share your problems with your family or family members will not be able to help you with money, but they will definitely be able to give you some mental peace.
Mental peace is very important to survive in this world. If you are mentally broken, you will never be able to do anything good. You have to be mentally well. Mental peace is necessary. Peace is not available to everyone, but to those who have it, you must have value because there are some people who hurt their own people so much. Will those people give people peace? They themselves will be mentally broken from within and will not hurt any person so much. The person who lies on the prayer bed and asks Allah for judgment in your name should not do anything that brings tears to people's eyes. Keep these words in mind. Try to take life simply and you will see that life will come to you easily.