Respect your wife and your home will become paradise.
There are many people in this world who are afraid to talk to the truth after hearing the roar of their heart breaking. A person breaks down from within when their loved ones hurt them. There are thousands of boys and thousands of girls in this world who are constantly trying to end themselves. In fact, standing in the present, love is a puppet game. Whoever wants to play with you will throw you away when he wants to. There is no love in the relationship, there is only selfishness, interest is the end. Love for you ends in a moment. In fact, love is maybe 98 out of 100 people play with it and two people give importance to true love.
If you know how to live well, then learn to give importance to your beloved person. A girl does not want crores of rupees from you, she just wants a little love. If you cannot give importance to a wife after marriage, then perhaps no one else in this world can be a coward like you. Again, it is the same in the case of a girl. If you cannot respect your husband properly, if you cannot give him love, then there is no one else in this world who is as unfortunate as you. However, as far as I have seen, these incidents happen more in the case of a boy than in the case of a girl because after marriage, they listen to their parents and make a girl's life completely soft, which is not right at all.
Your wife is your soulmate, she loves you more than her own self, she left her family and came to you to cling to you and live, but if you neglect her, where will that person go? I have seen in some families that a girl is slowly dying just because she is giving importance to her parents, but still there is nothing to say because the person she is dreaming of living with is hurting her. A few days ago, I spoke to someone, I am keeping his identity a secret because he never allowed me to discuss his personal matters anywhere. To be honest, after hearing those words from my mouth, I feel like a storm has broken out inside me. A person suffers so much. She married her cousin, that is, the marriage took place from her family, but gradually the boy started hurting the girl so much that she cannot bear it.
The boy might have had an affair or relationship with someone else, the family forced him to marry his cousin, but the boy never gave the girl any importance or gave her the rights of a husband and wife. The girl gradually broke down. She was always told that she was a village girl, the boy had studied in the city, was doing a good job, and the girl had studied. But that smartness was lacking because in the present day, you probably don't need to tell me again how much city girls behave with lewdness. But the girl always wore a veil, which easily led to quarrels with her husband. In this way, almost two long months passed, no relationship was formed between them, and the relationship that existed could have broken at any moment.
How much more could this go on, even then he wanted to look at his family's faces and at least fix everything himself, but even if he wanted, everything is never possible for him alone. A person likes to be alone, but that does not mean that he will leave his whole world and be alone. In life, I also think of being alone, but in some cases I get disappointed and think that this is the end, but he did not give up. I kept trying. The girl who was in a relationship with her husband was very greedy. She always thought about money. When the boy lost his job, he could not give the girl the money properly, so the girl left the boy. The boy was a little surprised to see this and was able to understand why the girl had a relationship with him. Gradually, the boy realized his mistake and got a good job. The girl could not even sleep peacefully at night after completing all the household chores. There were constant quarrels between them.
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