Reality is really hard.

Sometimes I think that my back is against the wall and something really I will not get married, this is the end of it all, what is the use of thinking so much? A person can change himself as much as he wants with time, maybe he can adapt himself to the environment and society, but as far as I understand, only by accepting and adapting, people are limited. When you can tolerate everyone's words silently, then you will be good to everyone. Whenever you stop listening to everyone, try to move in your own way, manage your life in your own way, that's when the problem will start.

There is no end to the problems in our life, I can't deny it, I don't think there is any room for denial. The most peaceful place in a person's life is his family. If you start getting hurt from your family, then you will never be able to stand up. Let's talk about a girl's life. Do you know how long a girl stays good? Those who get married at the age of 17, those who get married at the age of 18, those who get married at the age of 18, and those who get married a little later, that is, until that year, that is, until she stays in her father's house.

I will say another thing about this too, that is, when a girl turns 16, her family and parents all go crazy for her marriage. They become so busy thinking about when they will marry her off and send her off to someone else's house. It seems to me that a girl only lives by fighting with her family, sometimes with her in-laws, sometimes with her own family, sometimes with her husband, until their lives end.

They don't understand the real meaning of life. I think you know what the best thing about a girl's life is her husband. When a girl's husband understands that she is upset, he looks at her face and understands why she is upset. But no one is as lucky as that girl. It's okay to cry, but if the person next to you can't find out the reason for your crying, then you will never be able to live in peace there.

Not everyone can understand, but not everyone tries to understand. You are crying with your face buried in the pillow, while your most beloved person is lying next to you. Your words that you did not mean to cause do not reach his ears. So how do you know that person will share your pain? In the case of a boy, if I say that he touches his wife's body in anger, when they need him again, he apologizes by saying that he does not remember what he said in anger. I could not control my anger. My question to those boys is, have you ever raised your hand against your sister or your mother in anger?

The answer to the question must be given in the comment box. A girl leaves everything after marriage only for you, for the man called her husband, but when that man breaks a girl from the inside little by little, that girl has no hope of survival. Every girl steps into the world trusting her husband, but when the man called her husband breaks her trust, the meaning of her life is lost. Despite having thousands of people around her, that man sometimes imprisons himself in loneliness and prefers to be alone.

There is no need to look for happiness in everything because the happy times leave our lives very quickly and what remains is only suffering. Trust only in the one who is above. You have stepped into the family life and are only running with the strength you have on your feet. Your husband will help you. Your mother-in-law will help you in every task. If you are sick, stop thinking about this. As long as you can accept it and adapt to it, you will be good to everyone. From the day you start talking, you will become bad to everyone.

Reality is hard to accept, if you don't accept it, everyone is against you, your father-in-law, mother-in-law, relatives, parents, husband, if you can accept everyone's words, then you are a very good person to everyone. After marriage, when we say, "Father, you have never seen this boy before, why did you marry us to him?", then the only answer from the parents is, "It will be what it is, just bear it a little, everything will be fine." I want to sigh and say, "How much longer will I bear it?" It seems like one day, one era, now I don't want to live anymore, I don't want to express my feelings to anyone. Now I feel like sitting quietly, even if there is a city, I want to build a house in that city where there is no suffering.

I am sharing these words with you after seeing several real events. It is very important to get an idea about a girl's life because I am also a girl and after so much time I will also have to enter the family life. However, I think you should know a boy well and then make him your life partner because if the person you choose as your life partner cannot share your sorrows, then he will never be able to keep you happy. Accept that person as your life partner. Maybe your parents will not accept you for a few years, but when their sorrows and sufferings are over, they will definitely accept you. You yourself will be able to live well. You need some time to live well. You do not need a lot of money. All you need is faith. A hand that you can hold and spend the rest of your life beautifully.