In the lives of girls

Hey, father, today, after so long, I really want to say in front of everyone in one word. As far as I have seen so far, there is no one to call my own. I want to stand in front of the mirror and ask myself again and again, is this me, the one with the dark circles under my eyes? I was not like this before, so why have I become like this now? I don't have the answer to this question and I don't think I will ever have it. Every person in this world tries to live in his own way, but at the end of the day, how many people can live in their own way? In fact, while doing everything for others, there is no time for yourself.

There is a specific time for everything, but in a girl's life, there is no specific time for her to organize herself. Every person wants to live her life as she wants, but in the case of a girl, that never happens. A girl is not loved by anyone. Let me tell you through a small example. It is true that parents bring girls into the world, but in some families, after the birth of a girl, a lot of oppression starts towards her mother. In some cases, it is seen that her father also does not want to accept her and starts beating her mother in various ways, asking her why she has become a girl. Is it the biggest crime for her mother to actually give birth to a girl?

I left the question to you, if you can, then you must answer it, but I never believe it. I think that a child comes into this world through the union of a man and a woman. No one except the Creator knows whether that child will be a boy or a girl. So, I will not call some men in this society men. If I call you men, it will be an insult to the male race. I will call them cowards. The extent to which they torture their mothers after they become girls is not right at all. Not only that man, but also some other women in that family, such as the woman's mother-in-law, sister-in-law, father-in-law, and many other members of the family, make a fuss about it.

Now my question is that being born as a girl is the biggest crime in this world. After a girl is born in this world, her parents may nurture her little by little, but they have a purpose, that is, after 15 or 16 years of nurturing, why don't they want to keep that girl in their house? I think every parent should have the answer to this question. They get up and try to figure out how to send their daughter to the next house. After trying a lot, a certain time comes and then they send her to the next house. In some families, it has been seen that after marrying a girl, her parents and relatives do not want to have any relationship with her.

If you don't want to have a relationship with her, then I'm leaving the answer to the question of why you brought her into this world to you because I don't have the strength to answer this question at the moment. Anyway, although the mother tries to inquire from time to time, the father of some families doesn't inquire at all. He doesn't want to know how well his daughter is or what his daughter has eaten. Gradually, a lot of distance is created in their relationship. The father-daughter relationship no longer exists. The girl forgets about her parents for a while while managing everything in her in-laws' house.

Then when he has a child, he has to spend his time on the children, the family and every person in the family, he does not think about how good he can be himself. This goes on for a long time and after a while it becomes a burden for the child too. The words do not say that as long as you can do for others, you are good to others. When you cannot do it, your body will become incompetent, then you will start being bad to everyone. This is the reality of the present world. People will come to you for their own interests. When their interests end, people will start defaming you. In some cases, it is seen that you do not hesitate to tell people about the work you did not do.

Even after doing everything, when he feels like a burden to everyone, he realizes that he was not really his own person, he just did a very good job of pretending to be his own person. At the end of the day, there is no one else in this world who would be neglected like him. But I won't talk about all families. Some families know how to value and respect girls, while some families don't even consider it necessary to give girls their due rights, let alone respect them.

In this world, you have never done anything of your own free will. You have to do everything according to the will of Allah Almighty. Therefore, I think you should put your trust in Him who sent you to this world. However, the answers to some questions are still unknown. I do not know whether I will ever get the answers to those questions. However, I request everyone if you have the answers to the questions, then of course you should give them to me. I also want to know what the answers to these questions are. However, a girl's rights and the arrangements for her to live well should at least be made by her parents. I would like to tell all parents how your daughter is. If you try to find out a little, you will understand how much trouble she is in.