Happy moments spent with family
But it is never possible to arrange everything in your own way, sometimes you have to listen to everyone from your relatives. But I am such a stubborn person, I have to listen to what I say, I don't care what anyone else says, I am such a person, in fact, I have shared with you for quite some time, I am in a lot of trouble. Although the problem is personal, I am not sharing it, but I don't say it in words that listening to the elders is very important, I try my best, I can win over everyone's words, but if someone does not want to understand my own words, what can I say, it hurts so much to tell the truth.
As the only daughter in the family, I think that whether it is from the parents' side or from the side of the siblings, I don't have a sister, my priority needs to be much higher. But I have understood one thing very well that girls are not a priority anywhere. If you feel differently, then of course you can share it with me. But I have told you what I think. To prioritize girls, you need to have all the resources you have. If you cannot strengthen the ground under your feet, then you will not get proper respect anywhere, be it in your father's house or in-laws' house.
Now you may ask me why I don't get respect. In answer to this question, I must say that I have understood one thing very well in the present times. There is no problem if a person is uneducated. There is no problem if a person is black. But whether that person has money is the first thing people look at. Just as when marrying a girl, the girl's father looks at how much money is in the boy's account. Similarly, when marrying a boy, the boy's father looks at how much money is in the girl's account.
The world is a game of money, the matter of respect will be seen later, it happens in many cases, and some such incidents have been happening in front of my eyes for several days, I am not saying anything to anyone, I am just listening silently, I think listening is a much better way. I can't see anything better than this, standing in my current position, I will say as always, I like spending time with my family a lot because giving time to my family and enjoying happiness with everyone is my personal choice. Many people do it, and I do it.
I try to be nice to everyone. For several days now, he has been saying no to coming to our house, but it was getting late. He has become an old man, but even after that, his work never ends. I was very surprised to see that even if a person is old, if he has the desire to work, then of course he can work. I understood this from my grandmother. Finally, he came to our house after some time, so I said, if you come, come a little after noon so that we can all have iftar together for at least one day.
After much request, he agreed to come to our house today around noon. Actually, it is much better to have Iftar with everyone. How do you feel about it? Of course, please tell me in the comments. I was very busy organizing Iftar from noon today, organizing food at night, everything. If I don't join hands with my mother, it is not possible for a person to do everything alone. I made Iftar for everyone and everyone had a lot of fun together. I am sharing some photographs of it with you. I hope you like it. So, I am ending my writing here today.