Beautiful moment

I don't have anything to think about myself anymore, I will love him/her, that's my biggest thing, but some people have started neglecting me a lot these days, after being hurt by someone I love, I don't want to talk to them a second time. Sometimes I think about how I will talk to the people who broke my trust, how will I trust them a second time, but even then I trust them, the reason is that I never want to hurt people, I think if a person suffers as much as I suffer, he/she won't be able to bear it.

If everyone thought like me, maybe no one would hurt anyone. Those who have suffered have understood very well how big this mountain of suffering is. There are some moments in our lives that we cannot forget even if we want to, whether they are happy moments or painful ones. We have to focus a lot on one thing, that is our future. None of us knows what will happen to us in our future, but based on that, we have to constantly fight for survival.

When we start neglecting a person constantly, at the end of the day, that person moves away on his own, after one thing, his trust, his love, everything ends, we feel responsible for everything, but have you thought that when the person you are neglecting is moving away from you on his own, there is a reason behind it. When that person realizes that he is not important in your life, he starts increasing the distance. I myself am like that too. I will not say that when people do not want to understand me and ignore me, I move away on my own because I think it is completely stupid to stay where I am not important.

A girl constantly neglects herself in her efforts to take care of everyone in the family, but the day her neglect runs out, she will give up everything on her own. How much good is there in a girl's life? She is dependent on her parents from childhood. She is so dependent on them that when she tries to do something on her own, she faces thousands of complaints and obstacles from her family. Then, after marriage, while taking care of everyone in the family under her husband, she forgets to take care of herself. While taking care of her husband and her children, she has long forgotten how good she is.

Finally, he blames himself because he could not live well in his old age, sometimes under the care of his children, sometimes with his older children, sometimes with his younger children. In the case of some girls, it is seen that they do not have any children, they end up in old age homes. They spend the rest of their lives there. We all have a responsibility towards our parents, but in some families, it is seen that people who can fulfill that responsibility cannot be found. When a person is young, he has a certain mindset, and when he reaches adulthood, he tries to put a smile on the faces of every person in his family. In his old age, he feels lonely. When he becomes so lonely, he neglects himself a lot. When he loses his beloved person, his partner, then he becomes even more lonely.

Now this world seems sad to him. He feels that the sooner he leaves this world, the better for him. But some people do not want to give importance to these things. Your parents are now old. You will also have to go to this age. Never forget this. After a while, a person has to take care of everyone. But I, you and I, are neglecting my parents so much. I don't even want to understand them. I don't want to give them time. In fact, parents are two people who, after losing them, you will realize that no one has ever loved you selflessly in this world except them. Everyone has loved only to save their own interests.

So I would request all those who have parents to treat their parents well so that they do not become lonely in their old age. Give more importance to this issue because when a person becomes lonely, he becomes very lonely, then he neglects himself a lot. The love of parents is the best love in the world for us. Those who have lost their parents have understood these issues very well. If the banyan tree called father stops giving you shade, then you will understand how difficult reality is. From the day the banyan tree called mother stops giving you food, then you will understand how much a handful of rice is worth in this world. So I think you should value them while you are alive, at least try to understand what they want, try to do the things they like.

If they want to spend time with you, then try to give them time. I know we are very busy and cannot give time to our families, but try to give some time to your parents because they do not ask you for a lot of money in their old age. They never go to you for expensive clothes when they are old. They may spend the rest of their lives remembering them. So I would say, take some time for your parents. Try to spend an hour or half an hour with them out of the time you have in your life. You will see that at the end of the day you will feel at least a little peace. You will be at least a little better that I was able to do something for my parents.