Ability to fulfill requests
The most important thing a person needs to be good is money. Again, if there is money, then people will be good, but money makes people poor at times. This means that even after having money, they cannot be good and cannot spend time with their loved ones. The most important time of our life is spent only after money. We always try to earn money, but while earning money, we lose our moments. The time that is lost in our life, we cannot get it back even if we try thousands of times.
In the past few days, I have realized very well that there is nothing in this world that is yours, whether it is time or not. There is no other teacher in the world like time. It will teach you even in the midst of your perfect mistakes in life. When time passes, its lessons leave an imprint on our lives. It constantly pushes us to learn from my life, but we do not like to spend much time with our own lives or our personal families. We become so busy that we never get to spend some time with our families.
But family education is very important for everything. A person can continue his life with the education he has, but there are some people like us who do not receive that education properly despite having family education. We do not find any answer to this. I think your behavior, your behavior, your family education can be good. You should always blame fate for being good. Your fate should not be with you. You could not change your fate with your own hard work. This does not mean that you cannot do anything. Of course you can. If you try, you can change your fate through your efforts.
But everything has a specific time, you have to follow it according to that time. If you just exaggerate a little or you cannot complete anything properly, then the next day's activities are going to be very bad for you. So before thinking about each tape, try to work hard with your head. As always, I can say that the dramas of Bangladesh are very educational. In which there is definitely some family education. Because of which I like watching some dramas a lot more. For a long time, I have not been able to do anything due to my busy schedule and some problems. But yesterday, when I suddenly entered YouTube, a drama came in front of me. To be honest, I like watching educational dramas a lot more from which I can learn something, I can understand something, it is very special for me.
And I like Farhan's dramas a lot more. I would say his acting is better than any other actor in Bangladesh. After watching some of his performances, tears really come to my eyes, in fact, I am sometimes surprised to see how a person can act so perfectly. Today, I have come to review the drama. This drama is a very educational drama, *We are our relatives or our own people. We make requests to all of them or if we have any desire in our mind, we express that desire. Our loved ones try very hard to fulfill our desires, but we forget that we are creating extra pressure on them, which is not right at all.
But that does not mean that we will impose our demands on them. They may fulfill the demands imposed on them even if they struggle a lot, but we will never be able to stop the pain and pride hidden behind it. A middle-class family somehow passes their days, but when a girl is born in their house. Then they worry about how to raise the girl and send her to the next house. At the same time, what can be done for the happiness of the girl. Nowadays, dowry is a gift for the rich and a demand for the middle-class family. Which is easily done by the girl's in-laws to the girl's father's family, and someone else asks for a gift. If you need some things for your house, then I think you can buy it yourself by working hard, but refrain from demanding from others.
In this drama, the activities of two families are highlighted in the same way! Where the middle-class father's condition becomes completely worse after getting his daughter married! He constantly sends expensive gifts to his house, sends her expensive gifts! Also, he gives money for his son-in-law's business, a fridge, a TV! In a word, to fulfill every demand of their family, the father of that middle-class family has to spend the last of his life's work, which his only son cannot bear. And no matter how he endures it, even after constantly giving so much, it becomes much more difficult to bear it where his sister is not well, so the boy decides to marry the girl of that family and teach her every demand.
If something is constantly demanded from a family like this! I think it is never a demand or a gift! This is absolutely taking dowry by force! Taking and giving dowry is a legal crime, but still we accept it as a gift, and some accept it as a demand! Some say that as the only daughter in the family, her father can do a lot for his daughter, can give a lot! But the family from which that girl comes, that girl must know exactly how much her father can do for her or how much her father's income is. Because she has seen her father since childhood, how hard her father runs their family, how hard he pays for her education, how hard he supports her, from this place that girl's heart breaks a lot.
But here I definitely want to thank that boy in the family! He taught his sister's family in a very beautiful way! The lesson from which we all need to learn is very important. I think you will understand after watching the drama and all the girls will be forced to say that having such a brother in our lives is very important. The boy took into account every request of his sister very well. From that family. When they got very tired of fulfilling the request, they started complaining. The level of their complaints was very high. In fact, when a boy starts demanding something from his in-laws, when the people of the in-laws start fulfilling that request, it is natural that they will complain, but it is not right to do anything excessive in this drama, but we have received that lesson. We must warn our society and every person in the society, if we do not warn them, I think it can take a terrible form for our future generations.
And when that complaint turns into a family meeting, the boy opens up completely. In fact, how lowly a request is to a family, that boy explains everything to his sister's family and his in-laws. We should learn a lesson from this drama. Dowry gifts or requests should never be made from any family. A girl's father raises his daughter with great care from childhood. Along with her education, he bears every expense. I think this is the biggest reward a boy should get. In fact, even though a boy loves a girl, when he has to ask for many things from his family, then I think it is much better to keep your daughter at home than to get her married to that boy.
But in the present time, nothing like that happens. A girl's father has to lose the last bit of his wealth to fulfill the demands of his son's family or son. So I would like to request everyone to refrain from taking and giving dowry. If someone asks you for it or asks for it as a gift. Never marry your daughter into that family. Because if you marry her, your daughter will not be able to live well in that family. You may not understand this now, but later you will understand very well that there are girls from some families who clear the matter in front of the family and there are some girls who like to keep things secret.