Before you make a child know what you are creating

Everyone wants to have a kid who deviate significantly from a typical development and have a unique learning needs either above or below average. And obviously nobody will ever want to love a child that won't be a good example to others. But the truth is that for a child to become a better person in the future it requires both the mother and father presence for proper psychological development.

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As human beings we should always remember how important our own children are to us, therefore in choosing the genetic parent of our own child or children we should be very careful based on character qualities, because some people in the society do end up having illicit relationships with immoral people which can end up affecting the children in the future because a child needs more that one adult to raise it. With this l would like to share a short experience.

When growing up l had this friend called Joshua a very brilliant boy but the problem l always have with him is that he always pick peoples things when they are not aware or informed which is called stealing, due to this habit l entered a lot of trouble because of him base on the fact that people always see both of us together so they taught we were siblings, that l had to bear most of the punishment for him, this went on for so long and l couldn't keep up with his attitude base on the fact that it's embarrassing to me. l had to cut ties with him but before l did that l asked some questions about his family members that was when l discovered that his dad and siblings do steal, the stealing habit is a trait that runs through their uncles and aunts immediately l knew it l stayed away from him until later on he died because they burned him alive for stealing a woman's phone in the market.

For me l think if my future child or children possesses any of my traits they will be positively exceptional in the society because the traits l would like them to have is my self confidence, the ability to motivate myself no matter the situation, my kindness and also my compassion for others. However if l ever have a chance to select a genetic traits for my future offspring it would definitely be my "Height" but for the child to have this height while growing up a certain changes may occur like changes in appetite, and changes in sleeping, that could take an effect on their emotions and weight changes. I will really love my future kids to have AA as their genotype because my genotype is actually AA and for their phenotype l will love them to have height because l do have height, browns eyes and dark hair color.

My advice to all parents and to we future parents is that in order for our children to become successful in life and be of good example to the society, we should always show them love and care, teach the child or children right from wrong with words and actions, remember to always encourage the child or children and give lots of affection and also one more thing the child or children will always copy our actions and words so we should always be kind to them.

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