[WE-214] You Need to Realize Your Worth: So Choose Yourself, Love Yourself, and Choose Your Happiness.

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Being in love is one of the greatest feelings that someone can ever feel. It is more lovely if the one with whom we feel in love can reciprocate our feelings, because that can blossom into a wonderful relationship. But there are times that too much love can make us blind, and it can get ugly. We already know that we are in a toxic relationship, but why do we still not let go and are still holding on if we have already tried understanding it? Why just take it all? Why choose them over yourself? Over your own happiness?

Well, I can understand that it's hard to let go, especially if we have been in that relationship for a very long time now. I understand, too, that unloving someone is hard and not very easy to do. I can also understand that you can't let go because it is not just "you" and "him/her" in that relationship and that you have a cute little thing or a child that you can't take care of alone. Those are really valid reasons, no? And it's hard to make a decision, especially since there's a lot to consider too.

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I never experienced being in an abusive relationship, and there is no way that I will ever let that happen to me, but it is easier said than done. Especially for some, sure I can do it, but not all can, especially for those who become too dependent on their partner or when they love too much. I don't want to just say this and that just because that's the easiest thing to "do"—no,, more like an easy thing to "say" because we all know that would be too hard to do.

So, what I want to say is, "Please it is not too late, You Need to Realize Your Worth, So Choose Yourself, Love Yourself, and Choose Your Happiness ." So, what I mean by this is that they still have time and can still think about themselves. I don't want to suggest that they should leave their partner pronto and move on, nope, not that fast, we need just a small step for a start. Starting with thinking, reflect on what to reflect. Time is what they need, it's never too late as long as they realize something before its too late.

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I just want them to realize what they need to realize. Someone must open their eyes to see things and think clearly. I know it is a long process, so we should really give them time to realize it. We also need patience because, as I've said, it's not an easy process. In a time like this, those people who're in abusive relationships or in any kind of problematic relationship will need someone who can listen to them. Someone who can understand them. And you know, our advice will never work for them as long as they are still blind.

But by slowly making them realize something, I think that can give me a better result later. Of course, I'm not saying that it will surely work, it's just me taking a chance that it will work. Just trying. I am maybe not an expert when it comes to love, but I think I can also give some nice advice, I think? Consistency is the key and we shouldn't give up on giving advice to those people who really need it. Even if they don't take it to heart now, but soon, it might just happen. And if it did, they will decide on their own to let go, to end it and who knows, and to finally move on.

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Yeah.. dapat equip yourself first bago ka makipagrelasyon. 😊 Para ikaw ang alpha.😄😄

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Mapaglaro c love kaya extra careful ka din kundi masasaktan ka Ng bongga. Kung pwede pa lng ibalik ang lahat binalik ko na, char lng hahaha.

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Ayiehhhhh, ay ba't parang totoo yan? Gusto pa nga waring ibalik, eheeee haha

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Talagang totoo hahaha. Pero andiyan na eh. Ikaw may panahon pa.

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I agree with this ate, everyone should know their worth, and it's all about loving yourself more and making yourself a priority. 😘

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Right, or it could be balance whilw giving just enough love to your partner na yong di naman magmumukhang dead na dead na even if mapanakit na eh magpapaka martir pa dibaaaaa

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Being patient with someone in an abusive relationship is very important. Because sometimes words don't work, when you want to help. Being there and supportive, reminding them who they are, it's so important xx

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Right, and being a supportive friend can be a way to help those people whos in an abusive relationship. We just have to be ready to be frustrated all the time 😆🤧

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When you don't know your worth, you can be easily manipulated. Kaya very important yan sa relationship

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Truelalu! Ang dani ding ka emehan nanh pakikipag relasyon no, aguyy. Pero sana all may karelasyonnnn uwu

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nako ate galaw galaw din kasi para may ka-relationship hahaha

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I never experienced being in an abusive relationship
I'm happy for you! so many women suffer from it
if you avoid it, it means you love yourself enough and the role of victim isn't yours
that's great!

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So true, some just can't get out on those kind of relationship coz they become too dependent to their partner. Thats why it is also important to build ourselves more, make ourselves more stable especially too when it comes to financial aspect.

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oh yeah.
and moral as well btw.
Some women even don't realize that they seek for such abusive relationships by themselves. It can be a psychological kids trauma or other problems inside of us that make us suffer in relationships.
For example, if a father was cruel with his daughter, she will choose abusers most often...

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Me na hindi pa nasusubukang pumasok sa relasyon, masyadong risky at ayaw ko magsayang ng oras kung maling tao naman. 😭
Btw Ruffa may itatanong sana ako. Sinubukan kong iswap yung hive ko sa swap.bch pero di ko mawithdraw. Pumunta ako ng hive engine tas it redirect me sa hive keychain pero walang option to withdraw na lumalabas. Tanging transfer/send to other users lang. Huhu pano kaya to. 😭

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