Respect yourself.

Nowadays no one values anyone, remember one thing, never dig into someone else's past because I think if you dig into someone else's past, he may have been bad in the past but now he is trying to change himself and become better. His life can be ruined due to your digging into his past, but people in today's time do not like digging into people's past very much. And anyway, do not try to harm anyone in life, when you try to harm someone else, you will be harmed in return. Sometimes I think that I am not yet 30 but I have 70 years of experience. Even then, some people say, what have you learned in this short life? I have learned a lot from this life.

When someone needs you, you will be so valuable to them that I may not be able to explain to you, but whenever their work is over or their interests are exhausted, their way of talking will also change. This is a fact. Many people do not want to accept real experiences. Whether you want to accept it or not, the people around you will treat you well as long as they need you. When their needs are exhausted, they will no longer remember you. There is nothing but interests in the selfish world. Everyone loves you, some people around you love you, some people hate you, those who love you will never harm you, but those who hate you will always enjoy trying to harm you.

We find many excuses to stay with some people but even after finding different excuses they can't stay with them, you know why because they don't want to. We stay with them, they always want us to stay away from them, don't always evaluate some people, your self-worth will gradually decrease, move away from where there is no respect, because the one who doesn't know how to respect you and in any case, he will never be able to love you. Life experiences are very scary, even if you want to, no one can change them, we are constantly busy trying to change ourselves, even if we want, we can't remove them from our life, our life experiences are very scary. Maybe like that terrible story in which the people we love become intoxicated in trying to kill themselves.

I was talking about a film released in 2021, although I don't remember the title or the name of the film, but I still remember the events that happened in the film clearly. Love never happens to everyone, but to those with whom one's heart is in harmony, but in today's society, love is limited by casteism. When a rich man loves a poor girl, they have no problem. But when a poor boy loves a rich man's girl, the problem does not end here, it has just begun. In fact, it can completely destroy one's life. If one's own desires are allowed to continue even a little, the honor of one's parents is hurt, and if one follows the wishes of one's parents, one has to sacrifice one's life.

Even if you want to, a child cannot live his own way over time, but the children of today's society try to live his own way, and if we think about the children of the 1990s, they have always thought about their parents. They have always thought, "We will not do anything that will hurt the honor of our parents. We will not do anything that will ruin the honor of our parents." In fact, while thinking about this, they sacrifice everything they have to make their own happiness. After talking to some girls, you can understand how much trouble they are living in, and there is nothing they can do about it. If you want to hear the story of a divorced girl, you will feel so bad after listening to her words that it is impossible to explain. However, I think that no matter how much trouble there is in your husband's house, it is better to stay there because when you get divorced, you will go to your father's house.

Then everyone from the young to the old will tell you the story of a divorced girl. After listening to her story, she told me that if it were possible, if I had left everything and returned to my husband's house, I would not have had any relationship with my parents or any person from my father's house until the last breath of my life. Then think about one thing. After how much suffering the girl said this, the experience of life is terrible. As I said before, try to build your life according to your own will. Many will become intoxicated in trying to break you. Many will celebrate to break you. But if you try, you can build your life. You love yourself without worrying about who will love you and who will not. Maybe it will take some time.

Those who have great minds in life, but did not suddenly become great minds, their life stories were very difficult, behind those stories there are many kinds of bitter experiences hidden, which they may not be able to express even if they want to, they cannot express them properly even if they want to, they only hide their troubles in front of everyone and try to stay smiling in front of everyone. The biggest difficulty in life is to explain your troubles to someone. No matter how hard you try, you will not be able to explain your troubles to your family members even if you want to, you will not be able to explain your feelings to them because no one will want to understand your feelings. Everyone sees money in this world, Dhaka has swallowed everyone in such a way that it is not possible to explain it, so love yourself, give yourself time, change your life. At the end of the day, you will be able to be a little better.