Mental peace
The issue of mental peace is actually different for each person. Some people think they would be better off alone. Others think they would be better off together with family, friends, and loved ones.
In fact, how much peace we can have depends entirely on ourselves. If we had spent a little time thinking about the positive things in our daily lives, then maybe we could have solved many problems ourselves. One thing everyone should keep in mind is that we cannot solve the things that we cannot solve, or that are beyond our ability to solve. Instead of regretting them, we should move forward with the things that we can solve.
For mental peace, it is very necessary to get some peace from our loved ones. Because we all try to stay well and stay well. But sometimes it is seen that due to not getting peace from our loved ones. Our mental peace is destroyed.
Today I will share with you a small incident that happened to a person very close to us. Actually, although such incidents are very common in today's society. But seeing such an incident happening before my eyes. I myself have also stopped a lot. I have repeatedly asked myself, how can a person be so selfish.
I have a younger brother who is very close to me and is studying in a very good college. He is currently in the final stage of his studies. Along with that, he does a job. From which he earns around 20 to 25 thousand taka per month.
Because the parents have enough money, they constantly send money to their son for his education, as his son is working.
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He likes a girl from the place where he works very much. And he proposes to the girl and tells her that he wants to marry her. But the girl agrees to the proposal, whenever he tells her that he wants to marry her. That's when the girl feels a little nervous. And says let's continue our relationship, we'll see what happens later.
The boy loved the girl very much. So the boy did what the girl said. The relationship with the girl continued. And today it has been almost three years since their love. A month ago, the boy proposed to the girl. Because the boy had finished his studies. He got a good job, the current job has a much better salary and is much higher than before.
Since the boy is the only son of his parents, he tells his parents about the girl, and his parents agree because they always try to keep their son happy.
I forgot to mention one thing. That is, when the boy worked while studying, he would spend almost half of his salary on the girl. Because he would take her to restaurants to eat. He would take her for walks, and he would gift her things she liked.
Now when he is pressuring the girl to marry him. Then the girl is slowly creating distance from him. And tells him I will tell you later. But the boy tells his parents about his marriage. The parents want to see the girl to get the boy married.
A month ago, the girl married another boy and ran away. And when our younger brother, who we know, went to the girl's house and found out that the girl was married, he was quite shocked.
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In fact, he loved the girl very much. That's why when the girl asked for something, he tried to give her that thing as a gift. When he heard that the girl had married another boy and run away, he became like a mental patient.
His parents tried to convince him a lot but couldn't do anything. Because now the boy can be said to be mentally ill, he keeps himself locked up in a room all the time. He has given up everything, his job, he doesn't talk to anyone and stays quiet.
From this incident, I realized how much peace of mind is necessary for a person to survive. And if one can get a little bit of that peace from one's loved ones, then perhaps one can live beautifully in this world.
I have a request to everyone. If you cannot respect someone, if you cannot love someone, then never play with their life. For you, their life may be a toy doll. But for them, you are much more valuable.
I am constantly learning new things from life. However, sometimes I feel like I have met some people. If I had met them earlier, it would have been much better. I could have made my life more beautiful.
I am not writing anymore today. May everyone be well and healthy. With this wish, I am saying goodbye here as I am today. May Allah protect us.