NOTHING LAST FOREVER

One thing I know well about myself is that I hate losing touch with people if we are friends, I love it so I stay that way, most times I carefully choose my friends, and sometimes, I let them pick me. Life itself is so difficult, losing something or someone that makes life bearable is something I always try to do away with.

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Yes, I am a people pleaser, I say that because I try as much as possible to adapt to people’s behaviour, when I want them around for long and would like to live at peace with them, I have friends of different thoughts to life, most of my friends can’t be stand each other because of their different believes, sometimes I am the glue that brings them together, but other times, it is impossible to.

I believe that in life, everyone has his good side and bad side, it is left for us to see the importance of friendship and make a conscious effort to overlook peoples bad side and be friends with them, we owe ourselves that much.

I have had a cases where I have lost friendship to marriage and spiritual belief, there is something preachers usually say; don’t yoke with unbelievers, what does darkness have to do with light?
Preachers tend to advise their followers not to mingle with people who are not strongly spiritual as they are, which i see as a fallacy as an act like such is self-righteousness and not what the bible preaches.

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I had a friend who was so close to me, this friend of mine would visit me every day whenever I was home, and anytime I was away, will call me regularly, our friendship was so strong that our parents and siblings believed in themselves that we were dating, they will always enquire about her and will always ask in questions in that regards. She was my best friend at that time, I practically would do nearly anything for her. Of a sudden she started inviting me to her church and telling me how it was wrong for her to be friends with me since I was not too regular for Sunday services or other church activities, a believer should attend, how I needed to rededicate my life to the work of God. Although I believed her it was a good call she was pursuing, I didn’t see myself being pressured to change. We grew apart suddenly and once she was married, we cut contact completely.

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