I am not the best but I appreciate myself

I always appreciate people, and what more of myself. I have realized that this lifestyle has earned me happiness back and front, thoughtful style's does not end when we read it on a book, or on the internet.

So, i just want to asked you, "Have you ever been with someone who keep a thoughtful habit's? someone who turns every wrong into good?

I have met with someone like that, and he was just as I said, the deal is, I didn't expect him to say that, and afterwards, push on the conversation we had.

I was just watching an old football match, it was one of the matches, on the just concluded african cup of nation, on the match, super eagle player missed a penalty kick.

I saw it on that player's face that he felt disappointed, but that didn't means, he is not a good player, it just a penalty kick, and sometimes, player's missed it.

In the barbing saloon, the man felt sorry for the player, when he looked at the phone, and saw what happened, according to him, he was saying that he knows how that makes the player to feel, because he has been a football team coach, and in those years, he could remember how players who missed penalty kick behave, as if, they were not good for anything.

But it was the duty's of him as a coach to touch on the player's shoulder, and let him to understand that he has try his best, and also, inform him that, they are still going to win the match.

To me, he was just a different person altogether, with so much nice perception, because, as long as I know, not everybody will want to say something like that, infact, some did blame it on the player that time he missed to score the penalty kick.

And, even people that will watch that match for the second time, they will still blame it on the player, because it was a thing they did not like.

But here was a man, turning that disappointment into something beautiful, and truly, he said that matches like it ends wins, in favour of the team that attempt and missed winning, according to his words, he make it to be fully aware that winning will still go to them.

Honestly, he was right, maybe he understands all of that since he has been a coach, yet, something I still sense in him was how thoughtful he was in supporting the team, and expecting some good will come out.

We all need people that speak beautiful thoughtful around us, sometimes, speech like that take out the loads that wants to hold our heart.

Nowadays, some people easily give up on things, all believing it's not going to work, because, the first sign was not a good one, yet, there are times, we have to try again, still keep that awesome energy, and the awesomeness we desire locate us.

Appreciate yourself, appreciate all that you have, including things that are not yours, and joy will never depart from you.

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