RE: To Humbling!
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Was it someone you knew previously? I say this because previous relationships are always locked in the same dynamic regardless of how you've changed.
It's usually incredibly hard to wiggle your way out of submission when the other party is used to total domination over you.
Don't be too hard on yourself also?
For much of my youth I was a yes man -- way too afraid of the word no. It took me many years to learn to say it, and many further years to unlock the relationships that dragged me down.
New relationships are easy. They start fresh with your new mentality in a new dynamic with new vibrance.
Some food for thought :)
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Apart from my friend who's house I was inz I'd never met the other people before. Which was why it was so weird and perhaps, hard for me to say no.
I'm learning to do a lot better, honestly, and yeah, I'll give new friendships a lot more thought.🌺