Fallen out of love,what next.

Hello everyone and welcome to this week hive naija weekly activities,my name is @quin.lizzy and today I will be writing about the topic "fallen out of love".

I don't really agree with the term to fall out of love,cause love is something I can't possibly define but lives in us.

Before I write about the topic in full,I will like to talk about my friend relationship,the have been happy foe so many years even though sometimes the argue but arguments bring them closer.

But she decided to let go of all the share cause she felt she wasn't in love with him anymore,I told her to make sure she sure that she doesn't feel anything for him and she couldn't give me a direct answer,she just said she is not so in love with him like the way she use to be.

There relationship did not crumble because the discussed about it and worked on the reason she felt that way.

Coming back to the topic,fallen out of love.Personally,when I love I do it whole heartedly and fallen out of love,I feel it isn't something that cannot be done easily but am sure that it will indeed have a lot of reasons why I will fall out of love,but coming to my married life.Even if I fall out of love,there would be reasons why I did and I wouldn't want my family to be shattered cause getting a divorce will hurt my husband and family at large and what if I was just cut up with the issues of marriage and felt what I felt wasn't love?

If I can fall out of love,then it means I can also fall in love.
This are what I will do;
Firstly;I will pray to God for him to show mercy on my marriage,and feel me with his love which is sufficient to love my husband.

Secondly;I will try to talk things and find out reasons w

hy I don't feel the way I use to,we will try to understand ourselves and make our marriage work.

Thirdly:honesty,I will be honest with my husband so that he knows what is going on and how I feel,that way if he still want us to work he will show so much love to me that I would love him naturally.

I was so much in love with him to the extent that I got married with him for a year,am sure parents and other couples must have experience such situation,but the decided to make it work and it did work,indeed marriage is not a bed of roses and it could be a phase I need to pass through.

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