MAKING FRIENDS IS THE EASIEST THING FOR ME…
If there’s one particular thing i have learnt from life in the last couple of decades, it’s the fact that life can either be sweet or bitter when it comes to having friends, you either grow with friends or fall with friends, and this depends on the type of company you keep in the long run, why do you think our parents are always very wary of the kind of companies we keep, this is because friends can either be the source of one’s GROWTH or the source of ones DOWNFALL, which is why it is sometimes good to keep little or no friends at all, just to avoid meeting and keeping the wrong ones…
When it comes to making and keeping both good and semi-good friends in life, I think i have gotten to that stage where i can now see and judge the kind of person you are at first glance due to some first time exhibited factors before even bonding and getting close to you, in this case, I either keep such person at arms length or i bring him or her closer for close studying and analyzation, and this is because i have also had my share of keeping bad friends along the way, i have been hurt by quite a few of them before, which made me learn my lessons the hard way. That’s life for you, experience is indeed the best teacher…
IT’S THE EASIEST…
When it comes to making friends easily and very quickly, i think i am the best definition of that particular type of person, and this was all made possible because of my personality, i am a very active talker, which means i talk a lot both offline and online but that doesn’t make me a senseless talker, i am always very cautious of what i say, i make fun a lot but then i try to not to overdo things so to not get on the bad side of many…
Making new friends is quite easy for me, it is as easy as making at least one friend anywhere I find myself, which means it mostly depends on where i am and the kind of situation i find myself in. Thinking deeply about it now, i have made one or two friends in different places, places like the bank, commercial vehicle, tutorials, churches, group chats and also social media platforms, it’s just somehow easy to make friends when you are an EXTROVERT…
Being an extrovert made it easier for me to approach new people and to make friends with them, it can either end up as a genuine friendship or a friendship of the tongue, depending on the mode of relation with me during the course of getting to know one another…
In summary, making friends at the drop of a hat is the easiest thing for me as an extroverted person but trusting these friends is where everything becomes more difficult, as I don’t trust friends easily because of many past experiences, now i have many friends but only about 5 percent all my so called friends are trustworthy, which is why it takes me months before having a real and true friend to share almost everything with…
HOW I GO ABOUT MAKING FRIENDS EASILY…
I won’t deny the fact that making friends easily is quite a simple task for me, and the funniest thing about this whole fact is that there is no special trick to it, it just happens within me and i go with the flow, it is only easier for me because i am a very loud person, i am a total extrovert, so i am always talking to someone and making friends with new people in my community and environment…
Making friend is very easy for me because i am an EXTROVERT, it has always been my all time trick to making friends easily, and also my personality is also part of my all time trick, i am cool, funny, jovial and friendly person, it is very easy to relate with me, which is something that has always been working for me all my life…
In summary, i don’t any particular trick to making friends easily, it’s just something in me that pushes me to make friends with people, and it all starts from questions and answers, then to greetings, compliments, and lastly making funny remarks and jokes to birth a smile, after all this stuffs, the bond gets established and from daily conversations we become friends and that’s it…
MANY FRIENDS OR HAVING A FEW ONES…
When it comes to having friends, i think am cool with both, i love having many friends, but at the end of the day only few of this many friends of mine have my trust to an extent…
I love keeping many friends because of influence and information, the more my friends the faster information gets to me, and having few trusted ones is just for relationship and bonding purposes…
In conclusion, i have many friends but only few of these friends of mine have my trust to an extent, and this is because i have studied all of them and i have chosen the ones i can trust quite well, having a lot of friends is not necessary but having few trusted ones is the joy of life…
NB: the above image was designed by me on canva…
THANKS FOR READING…
I don’t think there is anyone who has not had experience of bad friends. We just have to be careful of people like that and let’s not forget that they may be useful at times
Exactly my dear, cant agree less, thanks for stopping by…
For someone like you, shyness isn't in your dictionary as you can flow anywhere 😄😄 I can't make friends so easily like you because I am an extremely introverted being. Lol
I love people who make friends easily and go with the flow which I always try to do too but I find that it isn't something I can do that naturally.
Ahahaha, funny you B, one day you will find it easy lol, thank you for stopping by dear
Which one day? 😆😆😆
Dey play....Lol
Honestly the kind of people we keep around our lives will determine whether we fall or rise. A reason why we must be very careful while selecting our circle of friends.
You are a very jovial person who wouldn't be friends with you?😂 I remember the first day I came across you, during sams. Hangout, you were just making the place fun for everyone. One thing I love about you is, you don't only stop at being fun to be with, you also want those you meet to grow and that so, so sweet of you.
Awnnnnnn, see this man making me awwnnn, thanks bosss I really appreciate you hundred
You deserve it my boss. Then pleasure is mine sir
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Keeping many friends is worth it sometimes. I sometimes wish though to have lots of friends being an introvert is boring for me but I can't help it. Striking a conversation to someone I don't know before is like a hard job😄😄