LASHING OUT ON MATTERS OF THE HEART 💕

I still don’t understand why matters of the heart are taken for granted and most times treated as a commodity with a price tag attached to it, which mostly goes to the highest bidder during bidding. I know love can be beautiful or hurtful, but then it all depends on where one is standing though, I have seen the downside of love from afar but haven’t experienced it firsthand, not until recently though…

Love many decades ago was a beautiful feeling, matters of the heart in those times were treated with respect, care and thoughtfulness, unlike this 21st century where everything now has a price tag, even down to matters relating to the heart. So because we are in the 21st century now everything we do must be upside down?, it’s just funny and sad at the same time how the youngsters and youths of this century treat love like it’s nothing, seeing them treating love and other heart related matter as commodities with a price tag is just so disappointing and a shame to those who genuinely understand what it means to truly love someone…

Loving someone doesn’t give that person the opportunity to treat you like a nobody or that there is no other girl or guy out there worthy of such love. Even if the love is one sided, you are not meant to use that fact as a leverage to toy with that person feelings and emotions. It is either you let such person go or if there’s a chance let him or her in, don’t lead them on just because you want to use them or because they have one particular purpose they are serving you because of the feelings they are have for you…

Loving someone isn’t a crime, it is either it works out or not. Don’t use someone’s love for you as a leverage to make them do your bidding. I have witnessed a lot of cases like this, and it is mostly common in a one-sided relationship, which is best called one-sided situationship. One thing i have noticed in the last couple of years about one-sided love and relationships is the fact that there are two types of scenarios in this situationship…

The first scenario that happens most times in a one-sided situationship is taking the person in love for granted, leading him or her on when you clearly know there’s no way you both will ever end up, but because of the love they have for you which is making them abide to your bidding and yielding to whatever you demand, you decide to keep them close, leading them on for your own selfish desires…

The second scenario that pans out in a one sided relationship is letting the person in love go or presenting such people or person with an option to either walk away or stay as just friends after letting them know where they stand in terms of anything romantic ship. I think this is the best way to approach a one sided love, present such person with an option and let them choose that which they are okay with. It is wrong to tie them down because they have feelings for you so you thought to utilize it for a selfish purpose…

In conclusion, i am just very unhappy at how the love many people ones cherished and respected in the past is now something the Gen zs now take for granted. I just hope they would come to their senses one day. A big shoutout to all genuine lovers and respecters of love out there…

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