My ideal type of wedding

A wedding day is a big day for both the wife and the husband because it's a remarkable day for them, a day they both will never forget and that is why some go extreme to have it done.

A wedding day is a day of joy, happiness and, a dream come true, but some people are making mistake about how they handle it. Don't get me wrong I didn't say people shouldn't do it the way they want but it is not until the whole world is in the party before the wedding looks good. Meanwhile, most elaborate wedding doesn't last or probably have issues at the end of the noise they have made on themselves.

A wedding is beautiful because even the Bible says, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" so automatically getting married is never a mistake and even when a woman finds a good man she finds a good thing.

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Two years ago, one of my sisters got married. Already, some of my sisters that had gotten married in my family did a very small party and they were happily married but then my elder sister insisted that she wanted a big and loud party for herself because she got married late.

Nobody in the family objected to the decision because it was her day so anything she wanted, we had to give it to her, we planned based on our power because all fingers are not equal so we couldn't force anyone to contribute.

On the wedding day, her husband's family came with plenty of people more than we expected, though they had cooked their food separately the crowd was much and my sister was happy as if she was the one that invited them. Two months after the wedding they started having issues which no one could place a finger on what went wrong between them.

Later she opened up to my Mom that someone once told her not to have a big wedding party but the fact that she wanted everyone that has mocked her to see that she was getting married got into her head and that was why she insisted on having a big wedding party.

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I don't blame her for doing such a thing but left to me, I don't like anything big party and as long as it is mine, I wouldn't make it big for any reason. I have stepped on the ladder but then I haven't done the real deal so this is the kind of wedding I would love to have for myself.

For the registry, I want only my family and of course, I heard they don't take more than family to registry court and when we come back home every one of them should eat and go back to their house, I don't want external member because I am not making any big deal about that.

For the engagement, I know there is no how I could control people not to come to this so what I would do is I will invite my true friends and then my family of course that is enough for me because I would be having a parlor engagement not on the field or any events hall, I know some people might be thinking that I am being stingy but I am not, there will be enough food for everyone that attend the party.

I really don't like big parties for myself because I believe that it is not everyone who comes to your party is happy to see you celebrate so I would rather have it with my loved ones and stay happy in my marriage.