Life Treatment was just unfair

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Hello everyone,
It's a beautiful day indeed, filled with joy and positivity.

Every challenge or trouble faced and overcome is a lesson, and the scares gotten as a result of it stand as a symbol that i have conquered and I come out stronger and better than what I had ever imagined.

Sitting down to reflect on all the things that I have passed through, the scares I get in the process, and where I am today, I count it all joy because it has added value to me as well as to my success story, although it was not pleasant, but I persevered and endured till the end.

I wasn't born with a silver spoon, and there are certain things that are inevitable like death, so when it can he took someone so precious to me away, and as a means of survival and relief the burden on my mum, as well as to further my studies i had to move in with my Aunty. And my stay there was filled with maltreatment bringing out tears from my eyes all night long, due to the pains resulting from that i began to ask myself so many questions that i needed someone to answer me, but nobody was there to give me answers. Also remembering where I'm coming from, running back home will only be adding another responsibility to my mum who had other of my siblings to Carter and take care of, so I was left with no choice but to stay with them ensuring the pains.

With the pains and the maltreatment I received, I was made to believe that life isn't fair at all, if it was fair, I wouldn't be suffering in the hands of my Aunty, and dead wouldn't have taken my father away leaving us to suffer this way, I cried all night.

Most of the time remembering those things brings tears to my eyes, not tears of pains, but tears that even as tender as I was, I was able to endure to the end, and God had his way of vindicating me and proofing my innocence by answering my long prayer request concerning them.

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There are some maltreatment that becomes difficult to spill out, but I'm going to share this particular one, i was sent by my aunt's husband to the bank, i was given a cheque, to go and cash out, but it was not correctly signed, so entering the bank, i was asked by one of the staff to take the cheque back for proper signatures, so taking the cheque back, I told them what the staff said, so they signed it and took the cheque inside, coming out of the bank I was beaten from the bank to the house, what was my offense, they said i would have told them that it was a man that said that, and not a staff, that was my offense, i was beaten mercilessly. Another hurtful moment was when I was forced to accept something that I'm not, because of fear of being maltreated again, and so that I will be free at least at that moment. It was really a hurtful experience.

But even with that I had to be strong for myself and my mother, because I can't disclose that I have been maltreated, she would be very worried. So God saw my tears and innocence came to my aid, I was taken home to see my mum, that was when I told them I won't go with them anymore, let me stay with my mum, but I didn't relent praying for them, that God should bless them with that good blessing and vindicate me proofing me innocent of the accusation. And God did it for me.

Reflecting on that journey always hurts a lot, no matter how strong I was, remembering it will always bring tears to my eyes.

I counted every treatment received by my aunt and her husband as a stepping stone for being strong for myself and to my loved ones, it taught me perseverance and being of good courage, knowing fully well that my tomorrow would always be greater and better than today and the pains I had passed through.

Remembering those moments and treatments was just so unfair, because it comes with deep hurts, scares and pains, but even with that I'm happy that my secret prayers for her family were answered, God vindicated me, and he blessed them beyond their expectation.
So we learn to forgive, let go, and pray to God to bless those that hurts us.
Thank you for reading.