Am NOT A FIGHTER

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In my entire life, I have never been an individual who looks for confrontations that are physical in nature; however, I have participated in a couple of fights over the years. The last physical fight from which I walked away was about two years ago when I went to a local bar with some friends We had just stepped into the bar for a lively evening filled with dancing and music. But as the night wore on, our group began to clash with another group of individuals present in the bar.

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One of the members of the other group knocked into one of my friends, making her lose her drink. Some words were said, and before I realized it, a fight had fully started. I attempted to stop the fight but instead got slapped myself in the process. As the situation became more intense, I also threw a slapped. Security intervened almost immediately, however, the fight had caused its fair share of injuries.

Where that night is concerned, considering my actions during that time, I am not proud to admit that I was right. I should have known better, especially since I was provoked, that violence is never a solution. First, I understood that I need to control myself better and learn how to handle issues without violence. I also learned that it is best to turn one’s back on any situation that could lead to confrontation instead of attempting to deal with it on one’s terms.
I feel that I am not a fighter, in that I do not run toward physical fight Nevertheless, I have come to understand that I ought to protect myself and others when the time comes, but without the use of violence. I think that fighting is an outcome that can be avoided if mediation and conflict management skills are applied.

In the end, the last time I got into a fight, which was a physical attack, was slightly above two years ago. It was more of a bully beat down, and though I received pummeled, the experience it imparted was of great value. I gained lessons on self-restraint, the management of disputes, and the safety of turning the other cheek. Since then, I have tried my best to stay away from physical fight, and more to understanding sensible fighting. conflict resolution, without resorting to violence. I don't believe violence to be the answer anymore; and aim to resolve any conflicts in a healthier way than I have previously done.

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